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Ally Love

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1. “Because culturally we're prone given social media. And this is no shade, it's no knock. It's just good that we pull back the curtains. We're prone to only see big moments and celebrate big moments and big words and big people and big energy. And it's like, in order to be big, it starts from somewhere. It started small. And it was a lot of behind the curtains, a lot of steps behind the scenes to get to that big moment, to that curated, beautiful photo or that partnership or feeling healthy mentally, right? A lot of little steps, a lot of therapy, a lot of getting into Uber or getting on the train or the metro and getting there. Those are the steps. That's the fight. When we think about it, it's not just the grandiose moments. And so I think going back to your original question of just like, where did this come from? Like, I think it was just all the little things and my mom and stealing and me.”

   2026-07-17 · The Rest Is Politics: US · The Hidden Psychology of Confident People (Ally Love) · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

2. “Doing every day, to get out of bed, to show up, to do your best, to smile. Those are that's the fight. That's you fighting. That's you showing up as your best self. That's you doing it anyway.”

   2026-07-17 · The Rest Is Politics: US · The Hidden Psychology of Confident People (Ally Love) · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

3. “Yeah, but I think what I realized is that within all of us, sometimes we don't realize we are fighting for the thing we want or we don't realize we're doing it anyway because we're so sometimes insular like I can just only feel the way I'm feeling and I feel either bad or good about where I am right now. But when you look back the steps that you're taking to you know not get frustrated anymore or calm down your emotions or center yourself or ground yourself those are all literally steps that equal fighting. That's a fight. That's a fight of whether you're going to turn and be super negative or you're going to work and turn to be positive. All those things are this quote unquote fighting because I would hear people say in really amazing keynotes like, you know, get what you want. Don't back down. And I'm like, I can't, I don't have the confidence. And, you know, you know a lot about this. I don't have the confidence to do that. But I realize when you look back, it's all the little steps that you're doing.”

   2026-07-17 · The Rest Is Politics: US · The Hidden Psychology of Confident People (Ally Love) · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source