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Christiane Amanpour

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  1. It's not just an empty word. Equality is not an empty word. It changes the dynamic, it changes the flavor. Even in peace processes, do you remember the first two female Nobel laureates around a peace accord was in Northern Ireland? It was two women who ages ago in the 70s, way before there was a peace process. But women also pushed that process. If you look between Israel and Palestine right now, the Israelis have a very strong female contingent of peace warriors, if you like, who have their like-minded sisters on the Palestinian side. It's not got anywhere yet, but they are there pushing this agenda. If you look at Liberia, years and years of warlordism and dictatorship and dreadful stuff, it was the wonderful Lema Bowie about whom, pray the devil back to hell. Has anybody seen that movie? It's fantastic go and see it. They did the Greek mythological.

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  2. It's not that. It's when you have parity. It changes the dynamic around the table. That's all I'm saying. Parity changes something.

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  3. How often am I asked what it's like to be a woman war correspondent? I mean, I thought I've won that battle in 1990 at the Gulf War. But they're still asking us.

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  4. No, no, this is not just about don't rape us. This is about everyday sexism. No, seriously. This is also about everyday sexism, which has also been written about, but that's the bar that many people, including myself, have had to deal with.

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  5. Over egging of the pie. Maybe some people get caught up, but for a long time this reckoning has been coming. And this has to be addressed, has to be addressed. Let me read you what Skepta says. He's a young man, right? He's like in his 20s. He basically said, you know, so is there pressure on a man to live up to a certain archetype of masculinity was the question. And he says, I watch the National Geographic Channel a lot. Even without the volume on, I just love watching animals because we are animals. Sex is an urge. We want to have sex. But now people are just going to have to respect sex. That's pretty intense. That's very profound.

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  6. Is Naomi Campbell and a grime artist called Skeptor? And I've got it because I wanted to read why they were on the front. Don't tell me I've lost the page. Anyway, I've lost the page. But I tell you why I picked it up. I picked it up and read it throughout the flight to Austin. And I was so impressed by the articles by the editor-in-chief's article, by Skepta and Naomi's interview, by all the guys who were writing articles for guys in this magazine because they were sympathetic. They weren't whining and crying about a backlash and snowflakes and I don't know what else. They went, yeah, yes, ladies, yes, girls. This is your moment and this is the right time.

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  7. And then sitting in the audience, and then a few weeks later this happened. But the thing is, as I say, we cannot do this without the support of our male relatives, our male bosses, our male friends, our colleagues, whoever it might be, this is not women against men, men against women. This has to be the beginning of a real joining at the hip to win this struggle once and for all. And nobody needs to point out that the more women in the more equality, the more parity, the healthier every aspect of society is, from the GDP of a nation, even like the United States, to your state, your city, your community, your workplace, your home. It makes a difference. And I tell you, I mean, you might wonder why I've got this on my list. Yes, I did. So this is GQ, the British version, and on the cover is...

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  8. I thought many different things at different times. You know, I was shocked but not shocked, but I was shocked by the extent of it. I myself have not had that level of sexism and misogyny and harassment and abuse by no means. I was horrified. I mean, look, a few weeks before it happened at CBS and PBS, I was giving a speech at the Committee to Protect Journalism. I was hosting that evening. Merrill was there. She was our keynote speaker. Merrill Streve, and it was great on behalf of freedom of the press. And I looked out, and obviously the Harvey Weinstein thing was in full flow. And I looked out and I said to the men in the audience, I said, we are your sisters. We are your friends. We are your colleagues. We are human beings. You have to help us. You can't keep hurting us like,

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  9. No, what did I think about the whole thing? He's one of many, right, that started at Fox News, that went on to Hollywood, that's come now into journalism and other parts of our professional space, cultural, artistic, wherever. Sports. I mean, those female American female gymnasts, I mean, it's just a horror. It's a horror. And I tell you what I thought.

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  10. However I am going to tell you that with great pride as a competent woman I have taken that spot, or that slot for the moment.

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  11. To respect us as actual human beings, to enjoy us even and not to be intimidated, and to be with us in this struggle, which is a once in a moment struggle which we find ourselves in right now.

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  12. I've always been convinced, and this program made it more obvious for me, that we as women are not going to have totally satisfied lives, whether it's in the bedroom, whether it's in the work, whether it's wherever it might be, unless men are on side with us, unless they also are... Liberated

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  13. Want to hear about it. Yeah. So everybody's trying to figure out how to keep. But you know what I really want to do more than necessarily the West or whatever? I'd really like to explore this from the perspective of men and boys because obviously this was done through my lens and exploring through the perspective of women.

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  14. Go ahead. I'm sorry. Over the US I would do well, some of the stuff that Esther Perel has been talking about open, you know, You all know who she is, right? She's the fantastic TED speaker, sex therapist, and psychologist who has great podcasts as well as great speeches. You see in the West, you have couples who are bored, you have all the stuff that happens after long, long marriages, and you have this whole new thing coming out, open marriages. That seems to be the thing that's being talked about now.

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  15. I have lots of favorite stories. You know, it's like children. I can't tell you that I have a favorite episode. I learned so much. As I said, you know, I've gone out into the world and been experienced in all the other political. You know, it's translating. My view is life is a constant lesson. Learning all the time.

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  16. You go to do it and have children, right? Got it. So they go from nothing. To being expected to be, you know, machines in bed, right? So at the same time, they've been told they have to value this thing that they have, which is their virginity. So these women, many of them, are going to their marriages needing this therapy before they go because they don't even want to lose their virginity to their husbands. They have been told it is so valuable.

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  17. Explain that. So here, why is this important It's important because at the same time, and this is why women all over the world are so, I mean, just hit by every bit of culture and the patriarchy. Virginity is a must wherever you go. It's a must, particularly in the Muslim world. So that even though they are losing their virginity, dating, doing all this kind of stuff before marriage, they have to be virgins at the wedding night. So there is a thriving business in hymenoplasty, in other words, sewing up so that you can appear to be a virgin on your wedding night. You know, they have been told, it's been drummed into them, whether it's in India or Beirut or whatever, that don't sleep, don't sleep, don't sleep, don't you mustn't go out and sleep with your boy? And then on your

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  18. Yeah, so they have whole new economic sector called the dating sector. Right. Where people are teaching young women, young men, how to actually court and date.

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  19. In Shanghai, it's only just starting to the point that many women, young women, millennial women, The concept of dating doesn't even exist because for millennia in China, it's been arranged marriages. So, you know, you marry who your parents tell you to marry. And family is it. And family rules the roost. And the idea of dating and trying to make your own decisions is very novel at the same time. China has, or rather Shanghai has, the highest concentration in the world of female billionaires and millionaires, right? So they're massively empowered.

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  20. Catching up. So the West is ahead in their various sexual China, Japan, all those countries, Africa. Catching up. So, for instance, in the West, women have much more economic freedom, economic independence, etc. And they have been trying to explore their own sexuality, their happiness, all of that for a long time.

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  21. No, we made a conscious decision not yet to do the United States. I don't know whether we will, but we didn't do the U.S. Well, because this was around the world. I'm a foreign correspondent. I just wanted to go, I do want to do the US and generally the West. But what you see also is almost from the East, all the way to the West.

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  22. Okay. Yeah, and they're doing things that you and I would take for granted. They're not staying at work until 11 p.m. They're coming home and maybe 9 p.m. or 8 p.m. or 7 to have a Dinner with their wives and to actually talk, go play golf when they have some disposable non work time, you know, finding some hobbies. It sounds ordinary, but in that society it's completely extraordinary. So that was really fun and interesting.

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  23. Yeah, when I ask if she's happy and no, she's not, and is she happily married? No, she hasn't had sex with her husband in 10 years. And, you know, just this thing. And then, you know, she's found herself somebody and she's happier but can't really talk about it because that's not done. And then to find that younger women are trying to bust out that. Yes, absolutely. And then also to find that there's a small group of people, men and women, who want to change this and have created, what was it, the adoring husband society. Right. But they actually yell, I love you. And they actually make a big deal. It's performance art. So, you know, hopefully life will follow art.

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  24. I would say the most surprising was the generational difference because you expect, I mean, I didn't know this, but I went there finding out what maybe a lot of people know, that Japan, for instance. Is very, very sad when it comes to sexuality. I mean, there's sexless marriages, there's women who, once they've had their children, move out of the marital chamber, out of the bed and go to be in the same bedroom as their kids. So their husband, who's the office man, that classic title of male workers, hey, man, turn off your phone. I'm sorry. Just kidding. So that was weird. That was really, really weird to see that, to talk to some of these women who honestly there's a bar scene when I talk to about four or five women. And one of them almost has tears in her eyes.

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  25. I didn't do that, so I've done depressing all my career You know, I mean, do you know what? It was actually nice to have a break from the depressing, from the crazy, from the frenetic, from the current political environment around the world and in the United States. It was quite nice to have a break and see a real slice of life. that we also don't focus on. This is not manufacture. This is not just a little elite group that I went to talk to. This is a real source of life.

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  26. So it's or less, as you would know better than I do. But it is remarkable. So the series is also about how women, wherever I went, are grabbing their rights as well.

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  27. Employment for themselves and based on this what I read in the latest article I saw about it something like a trillion dollars worth of disposable income that women in that part of the world have so it's it's unbelievable like in Saudi Arabia and Iran 38 of women are doing tech stuff and 34 that compares to just 30 here in the United States

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  28. So, yeah, so it was unbeknownst to me without an agenda of that type, it was unfolding before my eyes. And there are many, many interesting things. I mean, the Duenne of the tech world. Who knew that in the Muslim world where women, as I said, are barely able to join the workforce, in the last decade, another 55 million women have joined the workforce. That's 155 million women. And guess what? Their powering it? A lot of these entrepreneurs in their hedgehogs, not the men with the hoodies and this and that who we see here in the West, but women in their headscarves are pioneering a whole entrepreneurial tech.

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  29. Okay, so in India, who knew, but there's also a flourishing kinky sector as well, where there is BDSM. Obviously, it's not the majority of Indians. But a small group in New Delhi do it. But why was it so interesting first for the visuals because of the stories people told me as I was on stage? In any event, they were very interesting stories. But most importantly, they wanted to be absolutely clear that this is all about consent. There's the safe word. Trust me. But of course, that's massively important too, because a month after I did that shooting, yeah, well, not physical shooting, but the shooting came the Harvey Weinstein stuff, which was all about non-consent.

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  30. A lot of it is not quite as edgy as I expected, so that I am very seriously trying not to be too voyeristic. Watching these couples do their thing, and Breathing and it's about this and it's about that. And all of a sudden the guy comes up to me and he throws these ropes over me. And one of the things I've learned in my life is when they're awkward situations, we can talk more about this in regard to me too. When they're awkward situations, I tend to pretend it's not happening.

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  31. Well, it does. Berlin is known as the sex capital of Europe, right? It's the edgy capital. It was really during Hitler's time they called it degenerate and all the rest. And they really, really have been, they fought for that part of their culture for a long time. You know, I found in 2017 that a lot of it is a little bit sort of... Of yoga. So

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  32. Yeah, you know, I did a lot of things naked ping pong guys, that's something to watch out for. You'll see I am an incredibly controlled human being. My eyes straight and it was all naked. Not me. Maybe not

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  33. I want to talk about this. I want to have fun. I want to be fulfilled. I want to be emotionally, spiritually, physically satisfied as well. That is crucial for women all over the world in any socio-economic demographic. And it was fascinating to watch the women who I've reported on, as I said, in the other way to be talking about this. And the other thing that was fascinating was how open they were to talk

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  34. Yeah, they're real life. Yeah, but which is also extreme in many, many cases. And what I found... Way before the Me Too movement exploded because I was shooting this month before that started was that yes, there are many parts of the world where it's very dangerous, very ugly to be a woman. But even in those parts of the world, younger women, women of the generation of many of you in this room, whether it's in India, whether it's in China or Japan or elsewhere, are taking their own rights. And you want to know literally in a society that considers women less than human or second or third or fourth class citizens where women are slaves, where women literally don't have the right to say boo to a dog, how does a woman say to her husband, you know, that's sex, I want to be satisfied too.

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  35. Yeah, but I haven't done it in this way. I've done it rape as a weapon of war, for instance. You know, I reported that in Bosnia. I followed it to the International Criminal Court. It became a law. But I haven't done it in this way, where it was much more of... You know, you're not going to see the victims. You're not going to see the horrors. You're not going to see the catastrophes in this series. And I did that deliberately along with ZPZ, Anthony Bourdain, CNN, and all those, you know, who we talked about this. This was much more a journey to see the flip side of what I've been doing all my life.

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  36. Sane or try to and alive during those kind of situations. But as I was listening to this radio thing, I said to myself, you know, what about women and girls? What about how you live, how you maintain your dignity, how you maintain your intimate relations? How do you keep your partnership going? How does a mother keep her daughter safe and not off to some forced marriage? Do they talk about sex between mothers and girls in villages in Afghanistan or wherever it might be? So all these thoughts kept coming. And how do you do all that in a flimsy tent where everybody and their brother can listen to you and see you and know what your business is?

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  37. You have done all this extreme living, extreme reporting, extreme experiences in the most extreme parts of the world under the most extreme circumstances. And you've watched and reported individuals cope with sniping and shelling, genocide and disease and famine and natural disasters. And you've told that story. You've been inside the humanity of people who've managed to stay

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  38. But what I thought was She really is going and crossing the line, trying to drag me across it as well. Exactly. No, what I thought was self-

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  39. I got the idea brushing my teeth around my sink, or at least at my sink, getting ready to go to work, listening to a radio program about three years ago at the height of the Syria war, and at the height of the crisis of all these refugees coming across from the bloodshed in Syria and trying to find a place to live and to be dignified and civilized and continue their humanness, continue trying to be people.

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  40. Which was great for me. I have to be honest. I sent it. Now you've completely thrown me off my. That's my job. That's okay, Kara. Yeah, that's fine. You and I, we go back a long way.

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  41. No, I didn't expect it for myself either, and you can imagine my bosses didn't expect it either because, you know, I can synthesize North Korea and Russia and take all that stuff in and Iran and the Middle East and then, you know, put it out in a palatable way for the viewers. Sex and love was much more of a somewhat voyeuristic journey, was much more of a learning curve for myself as well.

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