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Dr. Shefali Tsabary

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  1. “And confidently decides to put a ring on it. Three cheating couples, one last chance to commit. Put a ringed on a cheat half. New series premieres Friday, July 31st, 98 Central.”

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  2. “Presents an all new series. Each couple here has something in common. Cheating. All of you will be... It with If you and your partner can work together.”

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  3. “Thank you for the conscious parent. Thank you. It's really a new way to think about parenting. Thank you so much. I'm Oprah Winfrey, and you've been listening to Super Soul Conversations, the podcast. You can follow Super Soul on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. If you haven't yet, go to Apple Podcasts and subscribe, rate, and review this podcast. Join me next week for another Super Soul Conversation. Thank you for listening.”

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  4. “On page 250, you say the parenting journey holds the potential to be a spiritually regenerative experience for both parent and child, where every moment is a meeting of spirits. I mean, I got chills when I read that. Imagine, imagine if everybody who can hear us right now, if you looked at your child's essence, their life, as every moment, as a meeting of spirits, and both parent and child appreciate that each dances on a spiritual path that's unique holding hands and yet alone.”

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  5. “So So that's a classic case of projecting You say it's important to celebrate the ordinariness of our children. Let's talk about that”

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  6. “One of the things you say, too, is that we cannot expect our children to live a more enlightened spiritual life if we're not willing to go there ourselves. That's really the issue.”

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  7. “You were saying also that a lot of parents would rather see their children be wrong or rather believe that there's something wrong with my child. Like I got a bad one. You know, it's like getting a car. Oh, gee, I got a bad one. I just got a bad one. They would rather believe that. Than accept that it is an inner problem for themselves.”

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  8. “I shall never forget doing a show years ago, and I think we call it the Black Sheep of the Family, and the expert was saying that a majority of the cases, the person who's been labeled the black sheep or the troublemaker or whatever the family. Is the child who was the most sensitive in the family and absorbed all the energy? Yes.”

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  9. “Is the only book I've read about parenting or encountered about parenting, and all of my years of doing the Oprah Show that talked about being Capital B with your child, entering that space of or being able to align with your child's essence. I mean, first of all, that's a whole new vocabulary.”

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  10. “Yes. Fix it. Because almost every child's book is about how to discipline your child, how to do this. It's about managing and gaining control.”

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  11. “I know. I think that comes when you read this book. And then you read this book and you say, Ah, gee, I get that. That makes so much sense, but it feels esoteric. It feels like, all right, now how do I actually put that into practice?”

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  12. “You were saying also that they discouraged their children from listening to their inner voice. Well, oh my goodness, I don't know any parent. Well, go ahead.”

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  13. “But don't we have children all the time who say, I want this because my friends have it. I mean, I see I just did a show with single moms living paycheck to paycheck. And one of the guilty burdens they carry. And it was so sad to see that they're like, I can't give my kids what other kids have. I can't give my kids. And, you know, easy for me to say what your kids really want is you. Your kid really wants your time. They may want the sneaker and they want the gadget and whatever, but what they really want is...”

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  14. “Because that's every parent's job. To help them rise So another unconscious mistake parents make. They make purchases rather than create experiences.”

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  15. “Which is also not good Okay, I'll ask a question that Phil's made famous. So, how is this working for you with your daughter?”

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  16. “All right, so one of the things you say, too, is that we expect our children to live out our dreams. And we were listening to my friend Urania talking about my goddaughter Kylie, who has been taking tennis lessons since she was four. And just this past week heard mom was saying, you're always late for tennis. Let's get your racket. And she just turned her mom and said, I hate tennis. I really hate tennis. And she says, but you never said that before. She goes, I've been trying to tell you. I hate tennis.”

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  17. “Okay, so how, as I'm listening to you, I'm thinking parents are listening and saying, so you're blaming us for the child's behavior so the child slips away and they end up on drugs or they end up losing themselves or whatever and that is the parents' fault. Is it always the parent's fault?”

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  18. “Meet them exactly where they are. To enter their space. And so many parents, I can see, but I can see why because parents are exhausted. It's the most exhausting job there is.”

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  19. “So let's talk about some of the most common unconscious mistakes a parent make. They pay more attention to electronic devices than their children. It's so interesting. We were just sitting with some friends before this conversation, and someone who had just read this book, who had just read it like this past weekend, was talking about taking on some of the ideas that you shared and driving her daughter home from school decided not to engage on the phone that normally she would be saying this is office calling and put her phone down for the entire Drive home and her daughter said, Mom, you didn't use your phone the whole time. Isn't that amazing”

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  20. “Oh, I just want them to be happy. I've heard that a thousand times. I've heard that about as many times as you've heard it, yeah. I just want my child to be happy. Right.”

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  21. “Yes, so if you have a child who isn't showing up to the best of their consciousness, it isn't a lot of parents, I think, try to fix all of the problems, all of the disconnection, all of the lack of engagement on their part and their children's part with that grade. If I can just get the grade right.”

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  22. “And you say that the child never needs fixing? Well, that just sounds like radical crazy talk. It does, because there are some children that we see that are, you know, they appear to be out of control. They're unmanageable, they're disrespectful, they've lost their way. So how can you say that the child never needs fixing?”

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  23. “Well, actually, all your intimate relationships do, but there's nothing more intimate than your relationship with your friend.”

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  24. “Well, you say if you want to enter into a state of pure connection with your child, you can achieve this by setting aside any sense of superiority, by not hiding behind any egoic image, you will be able to engage your child as a real person like yourself. Now, I read that, and even as I speak those words, I know that there are those of you who are like, don't turn the channel yet, who are like, this is the craziest thing I've ever heard. This sounds as absurd to people who Not only discipline their children, and maybe some of them physically discipline their children, but the fact that you're saying that we should not be raising our children from a hierarchical point of view, well, then who's in charge?”

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  25. “Going to read this next quote, and you all can see why. When I read this, that's when I said, okay, I got to talk to this. Child are lesser to be transformed by us as the more knowledgeable party. Now I read that and I thought, well, I think that's what we all think parenting is. There's the hierarchy, you know, I remember hearing my father say, I brought you into this world and I'll take you out. I mean, there is a hierarchy, is there not?”

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  26. “But you say page four it's no, I'm not going to go through every page. But you say it's no surprise that we actually fail to tune into our children's essence, which is what we talk about on Super Soul Sunday all the time, about being present, being present, being fully in the present moment. You say it's no surprise that we fail to tune into our children's essence. How can we listen to them when so many of us barely listen to ourselves?”

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  27. “Well, I want in this book, you say, to throw a life preserver to parents who are just trying to survive, and as a psychologist you see parents all the time who are really hanging by. They don't even have the life preserver.”

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  28. “That's what being a parent is. You want your people even say this with such nobleness. I want my child to have a better life than I did.”

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  29. “But we project onto our children that which we hope for ourselves, that which we want for ourselves. But isn't that supposed to be, we've been trained in our culture and all the cultures really.”

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  30. “I love this quote just on page two. We're not even in the book yet. We're just on page two. When you parent, it's crucial you realize you aren't raising a mini me, but a spirit throbbing with its own signature. Wow, said”

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  31. “Wow. You know, on Super So Sunday, we use the word conscious and consciousness interchangeably with spiritual. Interchangeably, I think consciousness, awareness, spirituality are all the same. Is that what you're talking about?”

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  32. “I have not been this excited about a book since I think a new earth was the last time I was this excited about what can happen to transform people's lives. I started reading the conscious parent, although I'm not a parent before I finished the first chapter. I was calling, I was just literally thinking about who do I know? Who do I know that has a child? Who do I know that has a child? And passed out the book to all of them so that they too could start to see what you're trying to message to the world. So first of all, congratulations. I think this book is so important.”

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  33. “Eckhart Tolly, an award winning author and clinical psychologist, Shafali's Eastmeads West approach is the perfect melding of her life experiences.”

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  34. “I'm Oprah Winfrey. Welcome to Super Soul Conversations, the podcast. I believe that one of the most valuable gifts you can give yourself is time, taking time to be more fully present. Your journey to become more inspired and connected to the deeper world around us. Starts right now It's not a surprise that I was so excited about doctor Shafali's Sabari's work”

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