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Jennifer Lopez

lines on the record: 63
first: 2020-03-04
most recent: 2020-03-04
sittings or episodes: 1
sources: podcast

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“For 2020 and beyond, I think I just want to keep growing. I never want to get stale. I never want to get complacent or bored with where I'm at. I just want to keep... Making it exhilarating and exciting for myself.”
2020-03-04 · Oprah's Super Soul · Oprah and Jennifer Lopez: Your Life in Focus · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source
“If I'm more in trainee fight mode, I'm working out five, six days a week. If I'm on more regular, I'm three, four days a week, and I don't go more than an hour in the gym a day.”
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“Once in a while, on a good day. I just came back from the gym and just showered off, and you know, like, you're doing good. You do good.”
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“where I'll look in the mirror like I'm getting out of the shower and I'm looking at myself glory and I'm like You sexy, you go.”
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“Like I look tired. I feel like different things, you know, that I look, you know. My nose is crooked, that my, you know, whatever, and I teeth, I chip them when I'm singing with the microphone. You know what I mean?”
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“Truthfully and honestly, sometimes. And sometimes just like everybody else, I see all the things that are wrong. Did you name what?”
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“That's my word. That's my word. And I think when I went on tour right here in this arena, I said to everybody, you know, you need to understand and believe that you can do anything you want, that we are truly limitless. That was part of the Torah. Part of me turning 50, part of what I realized in that year or two before There really are no limits. The only limits are the ones that you put on yourself, the ones that you create in your mind. And when you pull all that away, sky's the limit. The sky is not the limit. It's not the limit. Not the lim”
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“I like that I've heard that. I love that. I love that because I feel like for myself I'm redefining it because when I was 20 something years old, I thought at 50 it would be done. Be done. I was like, I'll be married with kids. I don't know. They'll be in high school. That's what your program to think. And now that I'm here, I realize it's so far from over. Like we said, you're just at halftime. It's not done. There's so much to do. Here's what I know. I know that. Whatever the next 10 years is gonna be I don't know what's gonna happen, but I know it's gonna be better than what has happened. That's what I want.”
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“I have so many affirmations that I do, and I've done affirmations for a long, long time. I feel like they really do. I believe that how you think and I teach my kids this, your thoughts create your life. And so you have to think positive thoughts all the time. You have to force yourself to think positive thoughts at times. And so I do a lot of different affirmations. I do am open and receptive to all the goodness and abundance the universe has to offer. I am in perfect health. My children are in perfect health. We are safe. We are whole. I am whole. I am good on my own. I love myself. I love you, Jennifer. I love the universe. The universe loves me. God loves me. I am youthful and timeless at every age. I am enough.”
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“Yes, you got to. have to because there's another little voice that's going, you're not doing good enough. So the outside voice has to go, you're doing good.”
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“I think, like I said, it's a finally thing, and I think it just happened, and I needed to go through. Oscar Snub Super Bowl being what it is, all of the things that I went through in the last year in the best way and in the toughest ways. Kind of being let down that you go. Oh my God, I don't need that. I'm actually here and I'm okay and I am enough. I don't need this award right here to tell me I'm enough. I don't need that.”
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“And that's the thing that happened. I think what happened with the Super Bowl, with this whole entire year, with nominated all that getting nominated for all these awards and then not getting the Oscar thing. I had to kind of reexamine. I'm like, well, why do you do this? What are you so sad about right now? You just had the most amazing year of your life. You just had the biggest opening of a movie in your career. You just walk the runway in Milan and had a fashion moment. You just, like, you're doing the Super Bowl in a couple weeks. What is it? And you realize that you want people's validation. You want people's to say you did a good job. And I just realized I was like, no, you don't need that. You do this because you love it.”
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“You could not have done I think, like you said, as you get more mature, as you get older, as you have this experience, this wisdom on you, you have this life on you, you become a better artist. You really do. You become a better singer, you become a better performer, you come better at connecting with people, you become a better actress because you've lived. You need that life. And some people are talented actors from the time they were very young. And I was a good actress always. I can say that now. Myself, you know, but what I do now is so much different than what I did then. And it's more fun for me because I'm more confident with it.”
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“Nominated for an I was sad. I was a little sad because there was a lot of build up to it. Yes. I got so many good notices. More than ever in my career, and there was a lot of like, she's gonna get nominated for Oscar, it's gonna happen. If she doesn't, you're crazy. And I'm reading all the articles and I'm going, oh my God, could this happen? And then it didn't. I was like, ouch. It was a little bit of a letdown. Also, I felt like my whole team, like I said, most of my team has been with me for years, 20, 25 years. I think they had a lot of hopes on that. Like they wanted it too. And I felt like I let everybody down a little bit.”
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“He was like, just so you know, the guys going through the back doors and they do this. And I was like, really? You really seem to know a lot about this. But yeah, it was fun.”
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“No, Alex couldn't. Here's the funny, Alex couldn't have been more fine with it. No, no. Listen, these sports guys, they... They know a strip club or two. Let's be real He was helping me with the movie.”
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“Yes, right? And so all of that's going through my mind and it's 300 extras, mostly men in the audience. They're still men. They're not like fake people. They're real people. It's still about to see it all.”
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“You got this, and I go, Yeah, yeah, no, I got this, I got this, and my heart is beating out of my chest. And it's just in that moment you realize the vulnerability, but also the power and the balls and the bravery it takes to get up there and do that. Yes.”
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“You see, I tried to start with a codon. Like I was like, this would be nice, trying to convince the director. She's like, okay, but you got to lose it right away. I was like, no, no, no, I will, I will, I will. But it was more exposed physically and emotionally than I had ever done in a movie. So it was as I'm walking to the stage on that day, I'm literally with my producing partner, Elaine Goldsmith Thomas, and she's behind me. And we're up into the set like we do 10 times a day when you're making a movie back to the trailer, back and forth. And they're like, you ready? I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah, so ready. And I turned to Elaine and I go, I'm nervous. She goes, Nervous. And I go, Yeah, I'm scared.”
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“And the whole idea of She was the star of the club, the person who knew the game, who knew how to run the whole, who knew what everybody was thinking. She was just an amazing character. And I knew I had.”
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“I was so terrified. My heart was being out of my chest. Now, I wear sexy costumes. It's not a big deal. On stage, you know, I do my bodysuits. You know, we all do it. All the girls do it. We're fine. But I have like three pairs of tights on. And I'm like, you know what I mean? And there's mesh all through the arms. We're really covered. That's why I was a little bit with the super bowl. I was like, okay, I was so covered like so much. It was like having a wetsuit on. It was that thick. But with hustlers, you know, when you're an actress, it's a totally different thing. You know, I'm in my comfort zone being myself when I'm on stage as Jennifer. When I'm playing a character like Ramona, who was basically a lifetime stripper, she started when she was very young. In my mind, I created all this.”
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“Man, a couple weeks. Couple weeks. I felt like I had got hit by a truck after the Super Bowl. And I think it was because I started filming hustlers. I started working on hustlers of February before. So a year ago. And I went from hustlers to the tour to hustlers coming out, to filming a movie that I just did called Marry Me. To the Super Bowl and nonstop. So I think once I was just like trying to get to the Super Bowl and finish. And when I finish, I literally the next day, I look so crazy. And I could not move from the bed like my legs weren't working. They weren't working. It was done. That's because they had worked.”
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“Love that posting themselves. No, I love that you guys did that. Yeah. Relax so we chose to the Super Bowl. Yes, yes. So I was in pretty good shape, but I also was exhausted. And so I took a little time and I was just relaxing. And that's why I said relaxed and kind of recharged. I was recharging.”
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“And I was But I just kept going and I walked all the way and the music was, it was just like, you know when everything comes together in a perfect moment. Like the music felt great to me.”
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“And I was like, you think so? I was like, okay, I'm excited, and it was walking around, it was a round runway like that, like a big circle. And as I came out and I walked and I saw everybody start standing up, including Anna Wintor.”
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“Okay, yeah. And I said yes, like right away. It was just like a split second. And then I was like, yes, whatever you need. Of course I'll do that for you. And I didn't really think about it. But then when I wore it and I put it on and I was like, oh my God, I feel... Stronger now. I'm in better shape now than I was then. And so I'm backstage doing that And I had never walked in a runway show So that was my first time really doing that. So I was like, what is this like? You know what I mean? So I had a little bit of butterflies. And it was a surprise on top of that. So, you know, when you're part of a big surprise? And she was like, everybody's going to go crazy. It's going to be amazing.”
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“When she asked me to do this, we were sitting together at an event and she said, Jen, did you notice the 20-year anniversary from when you wore the green dress? And I go, no, I didn't know that. I was recounting. Has it been that long? She's like, yes. She goes, and I'm going to do a whole runway show dedicated to that print because it now has become like an iconic thing for Versace, that jungle print is what they call it. And I said, oh, great. That's awesome. Thought she was going to invite me to the show or whatever. And she goes, no, I want you to wear the dress again and walk at the end. And I was like, Oh, okay”
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“I mean, look at the two different pictures. You know what it felt like? Well, there was a lot attached to it because I was, I'm friends with Donatello for many years now. And when I met her, Gianni had just passed away. And so she was devastated and it took her a long time to recover from that, if you ever really recover from something like that. But I just have such an affinity for her. And so that has always lived with us.”
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“And you're like, really? Yeah, yeah, yeah. That thing. And I think Alex has done that. And I do that for him. He always says I do that for him. And so we have that kind of like. Mirror quality for each other”
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“It was different. It was different than anything I had ever experienced in the sense of his consistency, like what he says he does. Every And that, you know, is big. And he also wanted He wants to build together, which I've never had. I've never had somebody who wants to see me shine and grow and be. I think him being my life was a big part of what happened this year. You know what I mean? Because he allowed me to kind of just like. And it wasn't like, get back down here, you know. Or don't outshine me.”
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“Then we would have had issues, right? We would have to sit there and be like, well, why don't you like him? I would have wanted to know. What are you feeling that I'm not feeling? But it wasn't that. It was like, no, they really liked him. Max even said something. I remember this conversation with him, even though it's like now three years ago now. He said something like, no, Alex is the only one who doesn't ever get mad at me. Because Max's won't get in trouble in the house. And he's like, he's the only one who never gets mad at me. Like, he had so much patience with him because he's all over the place. And he's the most beautiful boy and the most loving boy, but he will knock this over in a second. You know what I mean? And people are like, Max, all you hear through the house is like, Max all the time. And Alex had this amazing patience with him, which I hadn't realized because he does get that.”
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“That we were dating No, I think they just started seeing him come around and little by little we kind of eased into it. And then we went on a family trip so all the kids could be together. And that was like a big step for us. And that we talked to them about. Like I was like, we're going to go on a trip with Alex. You know Alex and his girls. Do you like Alex? You know what I mean? Okay.”
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“No, yes. Emmy was like, I have to clean my room. I was like, yes, you do today, not tomorrow. You know, they have chores, but they also, I think for me, it's important that they see me working hard. that you have to work hard for things. Things are not going to be given to you.”
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“I think I'm a really good mom because I relate to my kids in a way that Doesn't make them feel Less than me, that where they feel like they can talk to me, I talk to them, we talk to each other with love, respect. I want to be around them. They want to be around me. And I think that's, I always said I wanted to create a home that they always want to come back to. That's my goal. Everything about it, you know, that they're never going to be judged there. They can say whatever they want to say. They're going to be supported, but they're going to be given boundaries. They're going to be given, you know.”
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“We talk a lot about it. Then he'll talk to Cynthia and then I'll talk to Mark and then we'll kind of coordinate. And I, of course, talk to Cynthia. You know what I mean? So we have a A network. The kids have a network of people who love, adore them, and want the best for them. And I think we figure it out as we go. We've been figuring it out as we go.”
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“You know, it's a navigation. You have to navigate it. Everybody's a different personality. Mark has a very different life. The mother of his children has a very different life than what we have. And we all kind of fill in the blanks for each other. And we give the kids all different experiences.”
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“Yes. No, no, it doesn't. It's so funny because when we first got engaged, I was like, are we gonna get married in a couple months? Like, your old thinking comes right back, like all that hopeless romantic that made me get married three times. You know what I mean? Came like rushing back and then I was like, wait, if we're gonna be together for the rest of it. He's like, whatever you want to do, like, we can talk about it. I said, but if we're going to be together for the rest of our lives, what is the rush? If that's what we're really going to do, if we're really going to be partners, if we're really going to try to build something together that we both never had or never felt like we had, which is a family with a husband and a wife and a mother and father, and we embrace all our children and we show them something that we didn't have.”
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“I love being around older people. Always have since I was in my 20s. The experience and the wisdom that they have is. So priceless to me, and I've always been fascinated. Like, I was always that person like 20 something years old on a movie set and had like my 50 year old girlfriend with me. You know what I mean? They were like, what? And my young girlfriends do, but I always had somebody like that, like a sage in my life, somebody who was guiding me.”
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“I feel like crap. Help me. Yeah, I mean, whatever I could, I was around the people in my life that were older, more experienced who could help me, you know?”
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“I learned to meditate. I read a lot of books. I read a lot of Louise Hay books. I met Louise Hay. Good. I was like, Louise!”
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“Yeah, that fear of being alone, and like, if I'm not with somebody, I'm going to be so lonely, I'm going to be miserable. It's like, no, what are you talking about? Your life is amazing. And you're doing what you dreamed of. And you have these beautiful kids. And what are you thinking?”
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“Yeah, that's the thing. I feel like now I'm good no matter what. No matter what. If I'm with somebody, if I'm not with somebody, Jennifer's happy. I'm happy. That I didn't even know I could be. So you know what?”
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“Culturally, that you have to be together, you can't raise kids without a man and a woman there, a mother and a father. And I think they do need their father. They do need their mother and their father Your happiness has to. Be a part of that Has to be”
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“because I never I waited to have kids I had kids when I was 38 that Because I never wanted to not be with the person I was with and had kids with. And I just felt like, I don't know, like I needed to, when we got divorced, It was such a lowest time of my life. I felt like I had failed miserably and that I was not going to give my kids what they needed and I just didn't know what to do. And so I had to kind of regroup at that time.”
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“Again, and I think this is a key to life that I had to love myself and be okay on my own. Before I could be in a healthy relationship.”
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“That's absolutely how it feels. And it's a journey to get there where you get to the point where you realize and you're giving yourself the credit, you're giving yourself the path by like I've done well, I've done good, I've worked on myself, I've tried to be better, I'm going to keep on growing. And when you get to that place where you're not encumbered with what other people think of you and what you're doing, and you're just doing it for yourself and your own individual fulfillment and happiness and doing things in the right way. Nothing can stop you after that.”
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“Your ways to think, oh, if I take care of everybody else, I'm a good person. You know what I mean? I put myself last. A lot of women are in my family. That's how we were raised, especially Latinos. Everybody comes before you. I'm last. I'll eat last. I'll get dressed last. I didn't even take a shower. It's fine. How you're raised, and you need, you come to the realization that, oh, it's not that. I actually have to take care of myself so I can take care of everybody else better.”
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“And it was just recent too. It wasn't like some, yeah, again, these are journeys that take a long time. Like, first you have to figure out, oh, I'm not loving myself enough. I need to figure that part out.”
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“No, I wasn't. It didn't bother me. It was such a beautiful night and it was so well received to listen to the small faction of people who thought it was too sexy. We were trying to say something negative. It would have been a sin for me to concentrate on that.”
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“The Super Bowl that was, we had gone on tour, like I said, we opened the tour last year and she would sing a little bit of limitless with me. And I wanted her to just do opening weekend, which was the two LA shows. And she wound up singing it. We were on tour for like 30 shows. And I was like, you don't have to do it every night. She was on tour with me anyway. And she's like, I want to. And she would come out every night and do her little part. And it was a very special part of the show, but we had choreographed it without her just in case she didn't want to do it. But she did it every single night and she enjoys it. So I knew the Super Bowl was even a smaller part for her. And I didn't want to, and when I asked her, I said, if you don't want to do this, again, you don't have to do it. And she's like,”
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