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Julia Roberts

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  1. “It's usually just Really trying to see the other person's side or see the other person what they're going through that's making them do or say or be. Something that's creating conflict with who you're trying to be Because it's that expression, there's only two reasons people fight to be right or to find peace. I think in any conflict, you need to know right off the bat what your intention is in this conflict. Is it because you want to prove that you are right or you want to create peace or some sense of harmony in this relationship?”

    2018-10-24 · Oprah's Super Soul · Julia Roberts: Daring and Vulnerable, Part 2 · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  2. “I do. It ebbs and flows and sometimes it takes on slightly different forms, but I do and it's quiet and it's my little. My little way of having some sanctuary inside of me that I can go to to organize my thoughts”

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  3. “That I think we as people or as women or me just as myself who I am in this world that I had to make myself less. For someone else to feel more of whatever that thing was. That's why I say When I was making homecoming for me to come home and say to my husband, I had a great day. That's a huge statement of the man he is that I feel completely at ease doing that.”

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  4. “I think to say out loud to people that I wanted to be an actor. I was really, I felt embarrassed. I felt that it was saying more about what I Thought about myself than I really did. I found that really hard. Also coming from a family of actors, I felt like it seemed like The easy choice.”

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  5. “I don't know. The first thing that comes into my mind when you say that isn't really advice, it's just a feeling. Glad that I had the opportunity to feel and that I'm glad that I leaned into it when I had it, which is my life as friend and as a co-worker with Mike Nichols. He was always so. Unwaveringly encouraging. And there was just something to... Allowing myself to be lifted up by that not to think, oh, see, I've convinced him that I'm very good at my job or I've convinced him that I know a lot about this thing. That it was realizing. This is a good man and he loves me and is encouraging me because he sees things that are true about me, that there's no trick, there's no pretense. It was just so valuable to me. That I really accepted that.”

    2018-10-24 · Oprah's Super Soul · Julia Roberts: Daring and Vulnerable, Part 2 · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  6. “And beautiful, and that's what getting older is about. It's not about turning 50. It's about turning even more into the person that you have made clear to the people that you love who you are.”

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  7. “There was no soccer games. There was no, even these friends of ours that were texting me scores of games. Everybody was in on it. Oh my goodness.”

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  8. “I'm just going to go use the loop back here and I go in the back of the store and I go in the bathroom and I come out and Danny's standing there holding the surfboard. He goes, what do you think of this one? And I said, that's a big board. I mean, what is that for? And he moves it, and all three kids are standing behind it.”

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  9. “So we got in the car, we drove from where we were, and we were just driving, driving, having this great time, and we got to a major city. And it's a place we've been before. I was like, oh, this is a great town. We'll do some shopping. We'll eat some good food. This is going to be great. And the kids all had soccer games, and they'd been texting us. Other parents had been texting me scores of games and stuff like that. And so I knew when all their games were over that they would call us and we talked to them on my birthday. And we went into this shop that we've been to a number of times before. It's a surfing shop, of course. And we go in and we're looking at surfboards and we're looking at stuff. And I say to Danny, oh.”

    2018-10-24 · Oprah's Super Soul · Julia Roberts: Daring and Vulnerable, Part 2 · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  10. “And I was kind of like, huh, I didn't think this maybe all the way through. And on my birthday, the day of my birthday, we had this beautiful morning and this place that we'd been. And then Danny, I said, pack up, we're getting in the car. We're driving somewhere.”

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  11. “And that's what we did. And it was so beautiful and wonderful. And of course, we talked to the kids because it was just the two of us. And there was a point that I thought, gosh, this is kind of weird. Not being all together, the five of us for my birthday.”

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  12. “You know, I just. I think it's so much about feeling loved and my friends and family. Especially around birthdays, I'm one of these people I love birthdays. I love birthdays of others and I love my birthday. Danny had thrown me this. incredible 49th birthday party and it was just the most magical best wonderful fun party I could have ever imagined and the next day we were talking about it and we still had friends there and I said you know the one terrible thing that you've done here is you've basically thrown me my 50th birthday party on my 49th birthday we just laughed and he goes, well, what should we do for your 50th? And I said, how about this? We have five days away with zero contact with the outside world.”

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  13. “It's nothing that you would see in Harper's Bazaar, I'm sure. You know, for summer, it's just a lot of cutoffs, right? Shirts and cutoffs, and some days I'm almost certain I look adorable and there are many days where it's just the summer hot mass express where you're You're off duty. You get to.”

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  14. “You've got this. Oh, yeah, I did all the right things that you can say, you know what? I blew it. I'm your mom, and I blew it.”

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  15. “We take turns, we discipline in different ways. He is calmer. I have more of an explosive what am I seeing right now? But the great thing for me in myself is that I can get mad, I can get disappointed, I can yell at my kids as they would tell you. I also like to return to that conversation later once everything's calmed down that night, the next day, whenever, and just say, What could we have all done better for that? Because I know I blew it. I got so mad. But I didn't know what else to do. Or if you realize you were just wrong and you were getting mad about something that you didn't know the full story about and saying, I am very sorry that I did not. Have all the facts before I came down on you, or whatever it is. You know, it's just knowing that you don't have to pretend like”

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  16. “And the I Love You's and the Hugs and all of it. It's all so nourishing and we all need that. Of course, I want to start my day with four kisses every single day.”

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  17. “Time for yourself and speaking up for yourself and believing in yourself. And so there's nothing wrong with Saying to your spouse or to your child or to your friend. Can I get a hand Can you help me here I need somebody else in here helping me do this because I can't do it by myself. I don't want to do it by myself.”

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  18. “Yes, which is number one. But I guess it's also that illusion of mastery because I can have a great Monday and a really crappy Tuesday. It's a free-flowing thing. It is not a static thing. Oh, I've got this. Oh, I've mastered this mothering thing. It doesn't exist. Everybody makes sure that they understand that going into it. You have to be sweet to your husband every day. It's not just one great day of sweetness and that's going to last you a lifetime. So for me, it's just knowing that it's freestyle and I think what some women we fall into this place, because I know I've done it where you feel like it's your responsibility to Give everything, give and give and give. I mean, you have taught us more about this than anybody Oprah about.”

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  19. “Modify what your cooking is. No, I just want to make it really nice for her as special as the meal that I'm making for everyone else. I was like, oh my gosh, you are making big shoes for me to fill. But it was just to really. Show the respect and really encourage her new endeavor. And she's been amazing. That's incredible.”

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  20. “Yes, most of the time when that's the perfect scenario would be yes. Now, obviously, when I'm working, it's not that. And it's funny because Hazel has become vegetarian, which I completely support. We all as a family support. We do not align with that ourselves. We're carnivores. She is a herbivore. But Danny was the one doing all the cooking. I was away in New York when this started happening. And when I would say to Hazel or to him, so what is it that you're, how do you handle Hazel being a vegetarian at night? You're cooking dinner. What do you do? And he said, well, like last night I made this and this for me and the boys, and then I made this for her. I said, wait, you made her a second dinner? No, no, just can't you just...”

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  21. “Yeah, I mean, those pleases and thank yous aren't just, you know, to be sweet when you're grandma comes over. That's the fuel that gets dinner made sometimes when you just cannot face the kitchen. It's like, oh, mom, can we please have this for dinner tonight You know what? Yes, yes, we can. Let's see if we can put this together. You know, it's all those.”

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  22. “Well, I just think you have to define your terms of what is all what is all for me may not be all for you or all for my neighbor or all for the mom that I see at school. So I think people have to realize that it's all about the definition of what is the quality that you are looking for. Of all the elements that make up your day or your life or I mean how you see some Relationships, whether it be a husband and a wife or a mother and her children. I think, wow, that wouldn't be enough for me. I wouldn't know how to. Have my child speak to me like that and still have a smile on my face. I need it to be a two way street. All the time And sometimes where there's”

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  23. “You know, you've been described as don't you feel like you have to energetically put it out there that It's all going to be okay”

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  24. “I do because For me, there's not another option. I just think that If you're raising young humans in this time and if really want things to change and get better for Everyone You have to believe. It will, and you have to participate in that belief. A regular basis”

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  25. “Yeah, well, that is surprising, especially that it's so recent. I mean, I think that what's incredible is That people are feeling empowered by their own voice and their own I think people feel safer to speak their truth. Than ever before. Because there's just so much muck and Lies and stuff, and it's all kind of gotten so That you realize either we're all going to go blind or we have to say what we believe and we have to say everyone needs to know that over here in my life experience this is happening and I don't think it's right and I don't think it's fair. And when someone is able to find that voice and that courage, then they bring the like-spirited support that they need to affect change to them. And I think that's something incredible that is definitely going on.”

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  26. “Well, someone needs to call Claire So, here's the thing you're fabulous. Everybody on the show is fabulous, but it's called The Crown, and you wear the crown If they want the grounded.”

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  27. “Someone else was now present. And I also told them that they were not allowed to go to school and speak in a way that was derogatory about him. Because we are a democracy and Democrats have to support what's happening in their country the best that they can in the way that they can. So, I felt like we all kind of found a way to feel empowered within a situation that left us all kind of reeling. And geez, what happens now? And it was very powerful for me to have her, in a way, be my leader into this space of marching and participating in. In being a citizen of this country.”

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  28. “And I was watching the news, and it was a little after five, and I had woken up in the middle of the night and seen what we all saw coming. Confirmed and Hazel came down and the TV was on and it said on the crawl at the bottom Trump wins. gasped. because of course we all had this collective Hope or belief Something else is going to happen. And she was so taken aback. And I think that. What I saw in that exact moment was the complete Need for me as a parent to find a way to make her feel That this wasn't happening to us, that we could still participate in our voice and in our belief system. That's why we went to the first march in Washington. I wanted her to feel like she still had a voice and a place in the world that she could still believe in what she believed in, even though”

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  29. “Well, I think it's impossible not to be impacted by it. Just even just the reeling from it is impactful. But I will say this out of all the negative things, the great thing that always rises is the voice of people who have Survived or prevailed or now have a place of comfort And inspiration. I mean, I've said it before that when. When Donald Trump was elected having been through as a family the presidential debates and watching someone behave on television and speak on television in ways that Surprising and things and terms and phrases that your children say, what does that mean? And you find yourself having to Somehow define these vile expressions. Was a real learning Moment in our household, and so when he was elected”

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  30. “That'd be fun? It would be fun. I mean, we've been in the same movie, but haven't done things together. And it would be fun, and I'm sure it will happen at some point. I think her acting interests. Per story interests are different than mine in a way that is totally appropriate. But who knows? Somewhere down the line, I'm bound to play her mother. We certainly look alike. That would be fun.”

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  31. “So I love when I get a chance to read one of her book choices or she was doing a project that was based on a book or she was thinking about it. And so I started reading the book and then She texted me. Did I have time to talk? And she said, you know, kind of this is happening with this project, and it's kind of feeling a little bit more like this than like that, and I'm just not sure. Have you all discovered?”

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  32. “She'll mention, you know, she has this incredible book club and inspired by the greatest book club, Oprah's Book Club. Thank you, Ms. Elma. And she really has invested her mind in a way that I have incredible respect for.”

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  33. “Does Emma ever call Advice have you given? Know she has, but only of late. We have a really great relationship. Emma and I. I am so proud of her as just a person living in this world. She's incredible. She's very smart. She's wonderful. She has a giant heart. So work-wise, it hasn't really ever been something that was part of our relationship. She supports my work, I support her work, but we don't ever really talk about it. And I think now that she is really this grown-up person Carving What she wants to see as her Acting. Tapestry, what she wants to do, what she wants to say as an actor. We have started talking about projects.”

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  34. “Yeah, well, and the reason why I look because she wrote to me and she said, Auntie, you can't believe how many people didn't know you were my auntie. She had texted me, and I looked, and I saw that she'd posted it, and I was reading, and it was really entertaining, that little section of just people like, what? Who? They didn't know. Where have I been? And it was funny. And then it got”

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  35. “Don't know what it's like. I was so happy that it happened because. I had this whole new glimpse into a way of living that I didn't get at all. I could have never have really. You really have to go through things to understand them. And I feel like, and this was just a little paper cut of what can really go on on social media, of the clicks.”

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  36. “And it really made me see all the things about Hearts and clicks and likes and And you realize there is something Neurological About this whole system I just felt like, wow, if I can get bummed out over this.”

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  37. “Yeah, I mean, it would like nine o'clock in the morning. We were having the back time. And that it really came down to That I'm not aging well and I look like a man.”

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  38. “You should be nice. Why should I be nice? She looks terrible. And people start fighting within. Comments about what people are saying, but I was. I was amazed at What that made me feel. I remember 50-year-old woman, and I know who I am. And still. My feelings got hurt. Because I was so hurt that people couldn't see the point of it, the sweetness of it, the absolute shining joy of that photo.”

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  39. “People saying, God, I didn't even recognize her. This is what she looks like. What on earth? And then the fights that break out within the commons where someone says,”

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  40. “Was this Emma? Was this with Emma? Yes, Emma. Okay. The amount of people that... Felt absolutely required to talk about How terrible I looked in the picture.”

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  41. “When people do comment on things, I'm just going to say it the way that it happened because it was fascinating to me and I think it taught me a lot about being a young person in today's society. I posted a picture of my niece and I from one weekend morning she'd slept over and we got up and we're having tea and playing cards and having this beautiful morning I posted this picture. It was great. I felt great about it. And my sweet little niece reposted it a couple of days later. And two interesting things happened. The first interesting thing was the amount of people who didn't know we were related Which was funny just because I think we have a strong resemblance of one another and that it's just been written about a lot. And so that was illuminating. And then the amount of people that feel”

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  42. “So it's one of those things where I just didn't want people to be expecting a conversation and be let down because I know I'm not going to have time for that. That's not really the point for me. You have a”

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  43. “The only people that can comment, I guess, are the people that I follow. So I follow, I think, like 12 or 15 or 20 people. Those are the only comments that you would think you're up to.”

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  44. “And I know someone like Sarah Jessica Parker, who is a friend and who I really admire. She has an incredible Instagram and she has conversations with people. You know, someone will write something and ask her a question and she will answer them. And I'm always like, wow, she's got... 52 hundred comments and shell.”

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