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Marisa Peer

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“I'm enough, or my bracelets say it, I live it I created the I'm enough movement which I'm so proud of. It would be I am enough I have so many schools having kids say that this has changed bullying in this school, it's changed the way kids before macademy has changed the way they behave emotionally they all have a little placard and they have to say it state it of everybody I am enough That's my favourite statement because it's the truth about everyone but we just don't know it. We often think well I'm not enough and if I'm not enough I need more chocolate more followers more drinks more shopping I'm enough. a statement that can change your whole life if you state it affirm it, and it will sink in.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“You've always got a choice. The worst thing is I can't change it and I can't accept. I can't change it, I can't accept, I can't change them as I can't okay, I can accept those, go, hey, I'm messy and I love it like an artist or you can say I can change it but it's like I can't change it and I can't accept accept it My daughter loves living in Amesca, she's an artist, she doesn't even see it, or you can say I can change it by changing how I think to say I love putting stuff away makes me feel powerful. If you don't like your reality, you don't have to change or you have to change the way you're speaking, which immediately changes your reality, which is completely shaped by your words.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“It's just, I think, because you lived in a messy home, it was familiar, it was easy. No one said, tidy up, put that away. So if you're in the army, for instance, you say, oh no, I make my bed. And because you learned a certain way. But you learnt the opposite just everything's in a mess. So the two things that you learnt is familiar but also it's deeply disappointing because it makes you feel, oh God, there's a mess again and I can't fix it. When the truth is.”
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“Same feeling that you couldn't fix it when, of course, you can. You can say, I love putting stuff away. It feels amazing.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“But you didn't have that. But when you stole the stuff you got the same feeling, but it was never really the same because you had the shame and the guilt and the blame attached now you can let all of that go.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“It's just this horribleness. It's called Learned Helplessness and Learned Hopelessness. I can't accept this, but I can't change it. I don't know there's nothing I can do about it. Because, you know, you don't want, it's not the scene, it's the feeling within the scene. That's what you did so beautifully, that kid who felt powerless, frustrated, disappointed, but could do nothing. And the course, but that's okay orchids do that, but that wasn't really the thing that gave you could do it, but that wasn't really your choice you wanted to have the money that Ashley had to go into the shop. You wanted to have the parents to say, here's some money go and buy something lovely.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“You need to try the thing that works. Proper hypnosis it works all the time because that magic only happens when you get into that network of intelligence can understand what's going on, when you can send different messages to the feeling mind, because you're no good doing it logically. It's like saying to an alcoholic, now come on, have a lovely cup of tea, you don't need that alcohol, they'll look at you like you're mad because logic can't defeat emotion because there's emotion about I can only eat crackers is so powerful. But you can find a better emotion where does that come from what was going on like the emotion of that little Stephen saying When I have the chocolate I feel better I feel more powerful I feel the same as other people and that was the driver and I can say I don't need to do that I'm already powerful and amazing and equal to all my friends”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I was in Dubai in February with a girl called Sarah could only eat meat, couldn't eat anything else but meat, and I said I can fix that in an hour, and I did. We went back to why and now she eats everything cake, pasta, because she was in so much pain, and she did it she straight away in one session it was a game change. I had many kids this I can only eat cheese and white bread, but giving my number, I can change that in an hour.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“So many people who did doubtless life have said, you know, I don't eat sugar, I didn't even know it could be. Someone said, you know, I can't even have a cappuccino with a chocolate. Oh no, sorry, you got to take that off because I'm simply so indifferent to sugar. And then you start to taste how fake it is, how horrible it is because your body actually, your body never says hey, knock me out with sugar. The body hates it's the mind. Just like the mind might go for alcohol or drugs until you can get into the mind and say, you know, it's easy to make a better choice because you've chosen it.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Just a few minutes. That's how you know hypnosis is so powerful because you lose all track of time. Time stops, but the subconscious mind, which is running the show, really takes over.”
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“Well, you're conscious mind is completely shut down, the subconscious that knows it, the subconscious is always switched on is always on record, and it remembers everything and your subconscious is accessing memories. But you're really getting the feeling because the thing is itherby doesn't get the feeling it says we did this. You want to feel the feeling and say, oh, I see. I'm trying to get the feeling, but I don't even need that feeling. I can be free now.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“That's the great thing about hypnosis. You know, you forget where you are, the critical factor shuts down. Some things only happen in hypnosis, the critical factor shuts down. It accepts things it can't accept consciously.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Laying this recording so my voice goes with you stays with you until soon don't even need this recording. It's wired in fired in, coded into you. It's who you are not what you do. And it makes you feel amazing so knowing it, feeling it, believing it, being it becoming it slowly, calmly, easily just open your eyes. Come back into the room How do you feel?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Easy chocolate doesn't free you from feeling that you can't have it it actually reminds you far from solving your issues it reminds you of that kid it pulls you right back it doesn't set you free it pulls you back to that memory of that kid you could never have anywhere to go I don't need to remember that anymore”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I want you to think of the words that little kid needed to hear. You know better than me that when you were seven, eight, nine, ten what you most needed to hear, what you most needed to feel that you were the same, that you were equal, that you had everything others had. and I want you to repeat some of those words you can do it in your head or out loud. What are the missing words you've never heard and always wanted to hear?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“You're not seven, your mother doesn't provide your lunch every day, does she? If she did and you hated it, couldn't you go out and get whatever you want That's not me.”
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“I can have whatever I want. So now I wanted to go back to the little kid sitting on the grassy bank with a disappointing lunch. I want you to say to me that's not me anymore because you need to tell me exactly why justify and tell me why that's not you. So repeat after me that little kid on the grassy bank with a disappointing lunch box”
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“Want you to it's very important to feel the feeling you're doing fantastic, won't you say I'm looking at my lunchbox, I'm seven years old and I feel so disappointed”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“You'll mind, Stephen, is exactly what chocolate and children's sweets represent to you. I'm going to count back with some five to one your brilliant mind's going to take you right back easily powerfully to a scene that is all to do with wise and adult you keep going back to sugar the minute you get that information it's going to be such a game changer and of course you can't relieve anything it's not possible you can only review you can't relive being that little boy but you can review it When any sin you go back even if it's sad you're going to look at it with fascination with insight with innate understanding of how those scenes then shaped you today so let's go. So you're about seven, describe what's happening in this scene.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Okay, being hypnotized is really easy, I'll show you what you do. It's about the ice, so if you look at me you're going to look up like that, breathe in. Breat Take another deep breath, keeping your eyeballs up every time you blink deep powerful hypnosis is coming upon you breathe out, and just one more time keep your eyeballs up and this time, the more you blink, the deeper you're going to hypnosis as you exhale, keep your eyeballs up, close your eyelids down. I'm going to tell you, Stephen, that your eyelids are locked shut, glued shut, sealed together, your eyelids are glued tight. Try to open your eyes find they're locked shut. Go deeper, try to open your eyes find they are glued tight, go deeper, and one more time try to open your eyes, find they are fused together, go deeper, deeper, deeper”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Should I hypnotize you back to that little boy that wanted the sugar so badly so we can change it Would you like that Should we do it now”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I'm choosing to say no to chocolate and I'm choosing to love it. I'm choosing to say no to kids' treats and I'm choosing to love it. I was working with one of my clients who's a billionaire who goes on his boat on his yacht and takes all these things like refreshers and sherbet stuff because he wasn't allowed them as a child and even his own chef. That makes him happy because it's something that was forbidden and so when he gets it he thinks oh I feel so thrilled because it did that when you look at it it made you happy so you're looking for the feeling not the thing and you can give yourself the feeling without the thing anyway so you can remember I feel the same when I want it and I feel the same when I get it because I get the feeling without having it of course you could It's really easy too.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Sure. So you can open your eyes now so the adult you, you see, it's not the chocolate, it's the feeling you felt when you couldn't have it. So when people go on a diet, this is what happens. I can't have any of that stuff. I can only have lettuce and they have this traffic like red, everything's banned. Amber K and Green is like lettuce, salad, carrots, grilled fish. And you think, yeah, but I want all the red stuff. It's the mind says, if I can't have it, I want it. I want it so much. So again, you've got to talk to yourself saying, hey, you know, I can have chocolate every day for the rest of my life. It's always I can have it and I can have it in abundance. I can have a breakfast, lunch, and dinner. And here's the magic sentence that changes your life. I am choosing to say no and I'm choosing to love it. I mean, my parents are a bit like that, no sugar.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“So keep your eyes closed and imagine now you're grown up, Stephen, and suddenly it's one evening and you want this sugary stuff and you want it the next day and the next day. I want you to say this. When I can't have sugar When I don't have sugar, say it repeatedly. When I have sugar,”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“And then, how did you feel? So let's close your eyes a minute. Just remember be that little boy, you've just stolen them, you've just got them. It's okay that you took them. Most kids do that. What do you feel like when you've suddenly got them in your pockets or you're eating them? What's the feeling?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“So your mind always goes back to what something means, so let's talk about little Stephen, what did sugar and all the sugar retreats mean to you when you were a kid? What did they mean?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Don't talk yourself out of it. Oh yeah I have greater mess, but hey, I'm a super successful guy, I'm busy. Someone's going to come in and clean all of this up and it's not the same. It's vastly different. But our mind is always looking for what's the same because it loves what is familiar after all. You know, if you were two year old kid living in the prairie and you wanted out on the prairie, you'd only eat the berries you already knew. You wouldn't eat anything unfamiliar because it would have killed you. So our primitive brain wants to go back to what is familiar, back to what is known, back to what is comfortable. Let's talk about the sugar, because I've heard you say a lot. Let's talk about that”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Then you'll find it, and interesting, I think, when you look at the mess in your room, you remember the shambolic house, and that's why it bothers you, not because it's messy, because you were brought up in a shambolic house. Now you come back and think, oh, look at this room, I've recreated the same. Instead of saying, actually, I'm in a five star hotel. There's a maid next door. It's a little bit messy, it's not shambolic, but you see what your brain is looking for is what's the same, and it will always find it, but if you look for what's different, you'll find that too. So when you have a brilliant brain which we all have, and you definitely have, instead, you've got to talk yourself out of it, not into it, you're talking yourself into how the messy room is the same as a messy home, and it bothers you greatly because it feels out of your control, which it was when you were a kid living in that house.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“different, but actually if you fear being different, I write that means you're the same as everyone because you've got the same fears. And what wasn't available now, you've made it available many years ago, and you're deeply lovable and more than enough that you have to kind of go back and look at that old scene and say, but that's not me anymore. Of course it's not me. So just stating why it isn't you is actually one of the most transformational things you can ever do. As we're so busy looking for how it is us, you know, his are all of the mind, whatever you look for. You will find whatever you focus on you get more when you look at how it's still you or still there or still bothering you”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“enough, but of course that's what you felt the truth is you're deeply lovable just the way you are. But it's very hard when you don't feel it, so when you know your feelings are the most real thing you have, and we're always trying to use logic. But logic doesn't work because in a battle between emotion and logic, emotion wins every single time. So the emotion of being this kid who felt different, not enough, not the same. You can't logic that better. Yes, you can achieve a lot and work hard and be a millionaire. Remember John Lennon said the thing you can't hide is when you're crippled inside. And so you're trying to fake it till you make it, but then you just end up feeling like a big fake. You have to go back and look. I felt different, but here's an interesting thing. If our greatest fears to feel different, it must be none the same as everyone,'cause that's our greatest fear to be different. We used to be cast out for being different, banished for being different.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“But it was an act. It was an act. Yeah, and you weren't home feeling a sense. You see? I taught sixteen thousand therapists all over the world and I teach them there's only three things wrong with every person that turns up at your door. Only three things and one of them is I'm different so I can't connect. The next one is I want something it's not available to me and the third one is I'm not enough. There's a lot of versions I'm not smart enough good enough, but when you told me that little boy who was a black kid in a white world living in a shambolic has never bringing people home. Straight away you're saying I was different and if I'm different I can't connect because we connect by being the same because I like postman pat, so do I like pastor so do I like Barbie so do I Oh you're my friend But when you're different you can't connect so you first had that first thing I'm different so I can't connect what I want being the same as all the other kids is not available to me and if you think you're unlovable then you have to think you're not”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“What did you learn? What did you live that you learned which was that marriage is a horrible place you can't escape from its punishing? It's not a place of sanctuary or love or support something completely different.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Yeah, well I would have gone right back to look at what was happening when you were growing up, what was going on with your mum and dad, where did you get these beliefs from? What happened to you? You know, it's not what's wrong with you, it's what happened to you. You should never say what's wrong with you What happened to you in your formative years? What did you see growing up with your mum and dad? What did you see? So if we look at, you know, poor McCartney who loved Linda and all his children have got very secure relates Della's got four children, amazing parent Mary, she's got three children, but they're very happy. They've stayed with us because they learnt what they live. You learn what you live.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“is to raise the kid's self esteem. That's more important than learning Latin. is to raise your kid's self as if nobody teaches us that we think oh no it's organic broccoli and making you safe and making you learn mandarin and send you good school No, your job is to raise kids with good self esteem. And then they'll have relations with who got good self esteem if it only will work on self esteem. The world would be so much better”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“If you're looking for self-esteem anywhere outside of yourself, you're not going to find it. If you're looking for self-esteem out there with a jasmines of the world or someone, unless you're looking for in here, you're never going to find it. So stop looking out there. Self esteem is not out there. It's in here. And just spend some time saying, hey, I can elevate my sense of self worth, self value, self image. You see, self esteem means if I say Stephen hold you in the highest of esteem, that's what I think of you. But self esteem is what I think of me and what happens as we start to poke holes in our self esteem by saying I'm not good enough, I'm not rich enough, smart enough, attractive enough, qualified enough. And you've got to go back and go, no, I can raise myself as in my matter just the way I am. I matter, I'm enough, I'm lovable. And you know, my dad always had the job of any school.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I was actually working with someone who won the lottery, and he was you know what happened is when I won the lottery, women became more orgasmic. I said, you know that happens all over the world when men win the lottery, their girlfriends become more orgasmic. Yeah, I don't understand it and he couldn't understand it was a bit of a joke that of course they became more orgasmic because he became so attractive to them because he'd won the lottery. So that was very funny”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Of course it did. Of course you did. You had a sense of self it's not that I'm rich, but it's like I've created this, I'm worth something, your sense of self elevated because of what you've done and achieved and you grew up a bit too, and so your sense of self went up, and people like people with a strong sense of themselves, it's very attractive. It's actually very sexy. Confidence is really sexy, a sense of who you are is very sexy for men and women, so without knowing it, that's what you got.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Actually, I came home I knew John our kids went to the same school. I came home from Africa in September, met him in October, were married the following August. But I got to that level where I was so happy being just being by myself that I didn't chase him or think oh my God I need this it was just like oh here you are and how do you know you and you're a great guy and it all worked out perfectly but you have to get away from the neediness or I'm running away from it avoiding it or desperately looking for it in your case looking for it with thinking it's a prison you have to be at the level of I'm ready but I'm happy anyway”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I'm on my own in this amazing place in Zimbabwe in this amazing with two baths outside and two showers and two of everything I'm okay, I'm really happy, and I was married ten months ago, I didn't even know John. Well, I knew him, but we weren't dating'cause you have to get to that level of thinking”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Yeah, of course, because you didn't value yourself. And, you know, if you have this belief that I'm not good enough, and you fake it. People pick it up. They know instinctively they can't help it because it's at a level beyond communication where you have a low sense of worth. People pick it up. And when you have a high sense they pick it up too, but when you fake it, you're still faking it. So that's why you've got to get to that level of hay. I'm so great. When I was in, I was in Zimbabwe just before I met John and I was they put me in a honeymoon suite and it was an amazing place so sad you haven't got a husband. They don't understand that. Why have you got a husband? This is not normal. And I thought, you know, I'm so happy and I thought as a second time in a month I was also teaching in Connie but being a honeymoon suite again that rendered me to the best room in the house and it was a big honeymoon suite. I thought well you know what? I love being in here. I didn't think oh this is so sad and so the second I was in a honeyman I was thinking you know what? If this is as good as it ever gets”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“If it was all of them, they all picked up something from you. Because if it was one, you go, oh, well, it was them. I thought, so I've had five wives, they're all a disappointment. Have they had five husbands? No. And it was you I was talking to a client, I've had five wives, they all disappointed me. I said, well, you were the disappointment because they couldn't all disappoint you. You must have wanted perfection which he did, and you can only ask for perfection if you're offering perfection which none of us can offer”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Yeah, they knew that you were dumped them. They knew that you had a commitment fear. That sort of probably came out of your paw, so of course they jumped you before you dumped them because your behaviour and some of the things you did or said or even didn't would have let them know that. You had a commitment fear. And so they just got out before you did.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Well, it's one thing is to say, hey, you know, I'm I've got a great life and I've decided and I'm ready to be with someone amazing I want to share my life with someone who wants to share the life I'm quite I'm okay if I don't find them. I got a great life but I'm kind of open to finding them. I'm incomplete without that person there's something wrong with me. If you say to me why are you not married, I said, I don't know, just lucky, I guess. Because I hated the option of what's wrong with you, always had that pattern. I don't know. I guess I'm just very lucky.”
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“Perhaps of course there's so much like going to a Chinese restaurant with a menu that's twenty five oh I don't even know what I have now there's so much variety I've now got to page twenty I've forgotten what was on page one. If you go to a restaurant with a little men you think I'm going to have that. So apps with masses of variety lots of people. I mean they show you a good thing. How many people are looking for love just like you so you're not weird or a freak? Apps are good to show you wow all these people good looking people are looking for love but maybe come away from the apps and start to talk to people you know talk to people”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“When I go on a day, I'm good enough for them. What about thinking are they good enough for you? So you've got to reframe that. Don't keep saying I got to make myself, I've got to chase love, pursue love, get in shape to find love, be perfect to find love. You've got to find love just by being you. So work on knowing you're worth it. That's 80% of your success will come down to having an unworth it mindset. Think of the person think of where they are, and then get out of the yoga and go to the weights room if you're a girl, if you're a guy, get out of the weights room, go to the yoga, put yourself around the people you want to be with, and you'll end up with them.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Change ourselves so you have to take some time because the only thing you need to do to find love is first of all everyday some worthy love I am worthy of being loved I deserve to be deeply loved and I am worth it and if you think when I say that I feel really stupid then say it more until you don't feel stupid until you think no actually it's sinking in now start putting lotion on my skin it is going in it is having an impact so say it state it affirm it a lot I deserve love I'm worthy of love who couldn't love me I'm deserving of love and then when you've got that part right and you know think”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I've got brochures coming in, I'm going to look at I'm going to look at houses till I find the right one. So if you want love, sit down and think about what you want, make a list. Don't be into six pack and gorgeous or a ten. Think of the qualities. What is this person like? And then decide what is that person looking for? You might have to up your game a bit, and then think about where is this person? They're not in yoga, but they're somewhere, and once you've decided that you're worth love, that's the most important bit, and you can put yourself around people, you'll find love easily, but we're so busy trying to”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“In public, but how do you do that? Yeah. So people tell me they're looking for love all the time. I'm looking for love. Where are you looking? Describe your weekend. I went to yoga. Any men in the yoga class? Not really. And then I went to my friend's house and then I went to a book reading for any man there? Not really. And then I went out with all my girlfriends. We all looked the same. We all went to the same bar. Lot of competition. So actually you're not looking for love at all because you're going to places where men aren't. And then men say, I'm looking for love. Where are you going? I'm in the wait room any women there. They're all in the yoga class, so if you really want to find love, you've got to be proactive. First of all, sit down and think, what kind of person do you want? I mean, what qualities do they have? What are you looking for? You know, normally Sam, I'm looking to buy a house, but I never go to an estate agent or look at the brochures. I just think the house will turn up. I'm looking for a job, but I'm actually going to yoga. I'm not going for any interviews. We'd say, well, you're not really looking for a job, are you? When I look for a job.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“What are you doing? People say to me, I'm looking for love. Okay, that's great. Where are you looking? Where are you going? They go, Well, I go to yoga. Any men there? Not really.”
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“Is that really important? I can do it myself. You know, by the time I have an argument with him about the tea bag, I've already put it in the bin and put a bit of bleach on the kitchen counter and it's all done. So the second lot of needs you might have to meet those needs the need to have a tidy kitchen, the need to have I don't know, organic groceries delivered. Maybe you can do it. Sometimes you've got to pick your battles. And the third set of needs you just got to give those up. Some needs are just not important enough to fight about. No, my daughter is an artist. And artists are very messy. And if you go look at the mess and go, what mess? I can't even see it. So with my daughter, the need to have a tidy bedroom, I learnt to shut the door. Don't even go in then if I go and they go, she's happy. Do I need to have a happy daughter or a tidy daughter's bedroom, a happy daughter was actually more important? So some needs you must have your partner meet, some you've got to meet and some just give them away. It's really not worth arguing.”
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