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Marisa Peer

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“But you have to pick your battles in a relationship, and when he really annoys me, I just think, okay, imagine if he wasn't here, and that I thought oh no, I wouldn't like that, maybe not here for a couple of hours, but forever. So you know because of how you feel, but you see, you know, we're all taught this, you know, you found your other half, but you're not a half, you're a whole, you can't find another half to complete because you're not half a person. But a lot of us are taught, you know, you're going to find the handsome prince and you're going to live happily ever after. Well, that isn't true. There's never one person ever that could complete you or meet all your needs. And so you have to be a realistic in a relationship, you have to put your needs into three parts. I've got a need. My husband must always tell me where he is. He must call me, he must tell me when he's two in the morning and where he is. I don't like that. He must be honest. Honesty is a non negotiable need for me. So that's a need that has to be met. Need for tiding.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I think you know when you think a k my life without this person would it be better or worse or if I have an argument with my husband we don't argue a lot but I always imagine my life without him and it's so much worse than my life with him occasionally annoys me he's got some he can get a tea bag and have it every sort of the kitchen in like three minutes flower say wow how do you do there I just don't understand how you can do that”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“cold and migraine and your mind goes you said you didn't want to go and I'm so cool I got you out of it because the mind listens every thought you think it listens to it's like a genie your wish is it's come on to your wishes I don't want to be in prison of commitment I'm happy to date but when it gets a little bit serious the mind goes Let me get you out of this. And we don't do it in logical ways, you know, self sabotage, procrastination, and nothing more than the fear of either not being enough or not wanting to go where you think you're going. You know, there are people who apply for a job get it and they never turn up on the first day or think God I work that night I don't want it. I thought I wanted this I don't want it I thought I wanted that person I actually don't want them and so for you the thought that a relationship is prison is so powerful that it would make every relationship unravel including Jasmine so now let's go back to your friend”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Of course, yeah, you've said that before, and so of course if your end goal is commitment is prison. being stuck with one person's prison, your mind says I got to get you out of this, so it's all fine to have flings, but the minute commitment comes up, you back out because that's going to jail. You don't want to do that. So that's really normal when you say things like, oh, I'm going to be tied down. I'm nailed down. Oh that's it now, no more fun. And people say things like you two are one now and may all your problems be little ones and sometimes we don't like that. It's like, oh, I don't like that idea and all the vows about to love, honour and obey to forsake all others. We think do I really want that? But you were adamant that you didn't want that, that a relationship was prison. So when you tell your mind I don't want it, the mind must get you out of if you say, Oh God, I've got to give that speech, I don't want to do it, I want to do it, I want to do it. Don't be surprised on the day of the speech you wake up with chronic diarrhea.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“So what you were doing is the oldest trick in the book you pursued Jasmine she wasn't available with someone else. When she became available you thought oh no because now she could reject you, now she could say when she was with someone else it was a dream. I'd love to get that girl when you had the chance it's like oh she could find out I'm not worthy she could find I'm not good enough Sor”
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“twenty four and You Fancy People and you're a very good looking guy and you've obviously had some relationships, tell me about the self-sabotage.”
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“because the body made him so ill it would have lost his job anyway. So you know I love this expression the feeling that cannot find its expression in tears will make other organs weep. And Sue's got a feeling that he can't express, and when you can't open your mouth and go I don't want to do that. The body said, I'll do it for you, and it finds really peculiar, obscure, often really unhelpful ways of doing it for us.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Of this time thing. Because his mind is saying you're not ready, you're not ready. You know, often we have dreams that say, I'm not ready, or wow, I thought I wanted to do this, but my dream said, oh, no, don't want to do that at all. But the desire he's doing to other people is his body saying you are not ready to be with her. You'll be with anyone else but her, and you should really just tell her the truth and say look I'm not at that stage you're at I'm just not ready for that yet'cause you see when you can't open your mouth and say I'm not ready or I'm not comfortable or I'm not happy the body goes I'll do it I'll do it for you and I see that with all my clients not just sexually when you can't say one of my clients told me years ago that he got fired from his job and he couldn't tell his wife that every day picked up his briefcase and went and sat in the park and then he got really sick and then she said you're so sick you can't get you'll have to resign he went okay and he never had to tell her that he'd lost”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“And now he's thinking about having sex that's his way out, you know, he can't say to her, look, you know, I love you, but I'm not ready for that. That's five years down the line for me, so his mind is doing it. He thinks not to have sex with everyone but her.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Can do this because it's trading all the time, and there's nothing wrong with that that's the same thing. If I'm tired my husband will say I'm going to make you something to eat or I'm going to drive it, I'm going to do that for you because he loves me and I'm the same with him. But people think oh I shouldn't why should I have sex I'm tired? Why should I do that? And the worst thing is I don't want sex anymore, so you can never have sex again either which is very weird because why would you condemn your partner to no sex ever? Just because you don't want to have sex and imagine if it was the other way round because isn't a relationship doing for each other even if it's not really your thing?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“We're part of having a great relationship is doing for the other, so if I said to my husband, I'm not hungry so we're not eating. I'm not tired so we're not going to bed. I'm not cold, so the heating's not coming on. He'd look at me like I was mad, because part of that is I'm not really hungry, but you want to go out for dinner? We'll go, and it really want to go to this event, or I don't want to go to a football match, but it's important to you so I will go, because in a relationship you do for each other, if your partner says I would love you to put on a little maid's outfit and run around with the dust, it would be so amazing. I don't want to do that, isn't that drug? Do you think, well, maybe I could just try it once if I don't like it and never have to do it again? Maybe it would be red hot. It's not about being objectified. So if you love someone, and assuming their fancy isn't dangerous or painful or super weird, why not just see if you can do it? And then you can say, hey, if I do that.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I mean, I've been with my husband for Fifteen years, we've only spent eleven days apart, and we work together. So, you know that thing about living over the shop. So we work together, we're together all the time. But we have a great sex life because we both understand what makes it tick, which isn't necessarily being a part, but being apart is great too because you can't wait to come back to that person.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“But this is not nature doesn't care, but nature cares about this species continuing. Nature doesn't care about monogamy. Its role is to make sure we continue. But yes, of course, we want to be monogamous, so what do you do? We use that very thing if being with someone new excites me and gets me going, why can't I pretend my partner's someone new? And of course you can. You can do all kinds of great things. You can introduce newness, don't always have sex in the same place at the same time. It's a little tiny bit of effort, but do something to make it new and exciting.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Well, let's imagine, you know, that we're in a tribe and there's some people there, and nature the human species must go on, so for men when they impregnate the same person over and over again they've made her pregnant many times, but a new person, if you can get a new person pregnant straight away, that's how the human race continues. You know, one of my friends was telling me this story about in New Zealand with a rams, and he said, you know, you would buy the male rams and you'd drive them to the field and they could smell the females. They started ramming the door that's why they're called rams. And when you finally get there, you open the gate and they charge out. They have sex with every female. When they come back, they've lost half their body weight. And they're in a really bad way, but they have to have sex with every single female every you.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Because that's going to ruin it and then have sex but have some kind of family go to a hotel. Of course the men love it, don't talk, no, no talking just act out this fancy because he will triple his sperm outtake, your cervix will tilt, and it's like IUI. It's like you have more sperm and so many of my minds, why I got pregnant, you know, I've tried all this up, but going up the road to the holiday in, pretended he was like the plumber or anything at all and that worked we got pregnant like that because he made so much more sperm and so isn't that interesting? That wasn't about fantasy, it was about how can you get more sperm, how can you become more fertile? What can you do? And these were just silly little things that help men and women who were trying really hard if it had a low sperm count get pregnant.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Yeah, but also it's bad community. She should have said, Hey, you know, what you do the sandwich and go, hey, you know, we've been together for seven or eight years and we're great. But you know, I've got this thing I would love you to dominate me like this. I'd love you to pretend to be the postman or the gardener or I'd love you to pretend to be someone. It would really excite me if you could do that because then it would just be exciting and then they go oh okay I get it I've got to pretend to be the postman or the gardener or No, I worked a lot of women who couldn't conceive and this is where I learnt this from so many of my clients couldn't conceive'cause their husbands didn't have enough sperm. But when men have sex with a stranger they triple their sperm out and women have sex with a stranger their cervix tilts to suck up the sperm. So when I realise there's a great book called Sperm Wars that tells you all about okay so I wrote the mic and say, okay, this is what you've got to do. You've got to go home and pretend you're, I don't know, an air steward S and your husband, but you mustn't speak.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“And then we have the opposite some men who very controlling so you can't have that. You're not going to have that. They become controlling daddy and the minute your partner is in any way mummy or daddy, you can't have sex with them because who wants to have sex with their parents? That's really weird. And many people don't realize how, as they say in a long relationship they take on the role of critical parent blaming parent judging parent. And then you have no desire left, so you've got to be very careful not to let that happen. And especially when you have children and then you say mummy, can you get Andy a tissue daddy can you get Susie her gym bag? And even though you don't mean it, you're now saying mummy daddy. People do that with their pets even. Daddy get Toby for a walk or mummy and it's like it really messes up your sex life to call your partner mummy or daddy.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“My grandmother used to call her husband Dad or Daddy and that was a bit weird, but that was maybe her. It wasn't a sexual thing. She said, Come on, Dad, get out of the way, and what do you want for tea, Dad? And they had no sex at all. She thought there was a most disgusting thing in the wild, but the minute your partner becomes mummy or daddy, and many women and the best of attention say things like have you taken your vitamins today You know where a coat's going to get cold did you pay the bill?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“In your sex life you have to take that chance and use drama, mystery, suspense, edginess just like I was telling one of my clients I went home, I went home and said to my husband Dominate me so what shall I do? She went well Dominate me said yeah but what? She says Well that's the point don't ask me what how can you dominate me if I have to tell you what to do? I want to feel overpowered by your maleness when you say well what shall I do? You're more like a girl than a boy I don't like that because of course opposites attract especially in sex even if we're a same sex relationship opposites attract and that's very exciting when people are together a long time they try to make their partner like them and they forget the opposites attract so if you keep trying to make your partner like you and they keep trying to make you like them then you haven't got the opposites attracting anymore and then it kind of disappears and the other thing that people do a lot”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“about the laundry or anything else you can just really let go and you're in a different place and you can be someone else you often hear about people going on holiday like girls to a beeta and going wild and then they would never be like that at home because it gives you a chance to be someone else so sometimes”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“And so if you have a relationship of thirty years, I mean, I'm great friends with John and Missy Butch to be married for thirty five years. There are couple that created life book they live in Hawaii, but they talk a lot about how they have a very erotic sex life after thirty five years it's like red hot, but they understand it's all about bit a mystery bit of drama bit of suspense. I'm very lucky that my husband I travel all over the world so we never have on Saturday night Saturday mornings of sex then go to Sainsbury's that's just not in our agenda so we always have a bit of newness going on but for men even if you love your partner so much when it becomes predictable it's like the thrill goes you know that song about where's the thrill gun I've lost the thrill the thrill isn't there so you have to put a bit of work back into making your sex life thrilling and moving it away and so it's it's hard when you love someone but you know everything about them and they about you and it's like well there's no newness here obviously now I go on holiday we have great sex why is that well”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Being in love and knowing each other and loving each other and not caring if your wife got her period or your husband's got a bit of bad breath or they're tired or they've got a cold you just love them anyway but then you have eroticism which is amazing sex great sex and eroticism really likes mystery suspense bit of edginess a bit of naughtiness a bit of the unknown and they don't go together they really don't go together at all but there is one thing that makes them go to and that's called fantasy there's a bridge that links eroticism to intimacy eroticism and it's called fantasy think oh isn't that being unfaithful to my partner sure i shouldn't fantasize but actually fifty shades of grey which was not a great book at all but it taught people a lot about oh i can fantasize i can read this book and i can pretend i'm anastasia with mister Grey and that Burke did so well because it allowed people to fancy.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“You know, it's really interesting because we want intimacy. We think, oh, I want to fall in love with someone that finishes my sentences, that knows when I'm hungry, that knows when I'm having a bad day, that just knows me inside out and loves my very soul, which is wonderful, but what great sex requires is mystery, what eroticism requires is not intimacy at all, so in the beginning, even for the first it's all new, you don't know what they're going to do, how they're going to do it. It's all very exciting, it's all new. And so for men especially, you know, it's great maybe for the first two years, and then it's like, oh, like one of my clients said, every time my husband comes to bed with just his pajama top on, I know wants sex, but it's so unromantic. I mean, he just doesn't bother to put the pajama bottoms on. It's like, oh God, is that his idea of foreplay? I mean, it's always every Saturday morning before we go and do the food shop and it's so predictable. Many people have affairs, not because they don't love their partner, but because”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Of course, because comparison is a thief of joy, and we're so busy comparing ourselves to porn stars and someone who looks like the Kardashians or has a perfect body and everything's perfect. It's not really like that.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I don't think that's true. Apparently our grandmothers had more sex than us, but I think now we have all this pressure we watch porn, we watch other people talking about their amazing sex. We think, oh, I'm not like that, but it's very easy to make your body super orgasmic, but I think before we didn't talk about that. My grandmother would have never talked about orgasms or having a design of vagina or a Brazilian didn't even know what that was, so we're in a different generation now where, you know, every year there's another way to hate your body, even your genitals have got to be perfect now. And I think it's so much pressure for people. I've got to look like a porn star, have sex like a porn star, and porn really damages so many people because it's such an impossible expectation to live up to.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I think people are more able to talk about it. A lot of women countries are can't orgasm, I can't orgasm at all. I don't know what to do, all my friends having massive orgasms, but me, the more I try, the harder it is.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Yeah, because again if a man thinks about sex looks at pictures, looks at a movie and gets aroused, you get a very physical reaction straight away even if there's no one in the room with you, so that's a classic example of thinking a thought about being aroused, turned on, feeling sexually attracted and your body makes it real even there's no one there and it can be that a wedding can be an event, it can be highly embarrassing for guy to get an erection in the wrong place, but if you think a thought I'm turned on here the bodiments who does it for women too, but it's not so obvious for us we can kind of hide it. But yes, it's a thought I can't do it.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“You see, and for men, I get men who say, you know, I can't please my wife, I can't get an erection, I can't keep it going, and she's going to leave me. And if I tell them other things, you know, you're a great lover, you can maintain an erection for twenty minutes or ten minutes or the average is about four and a half minutes. That starts to happen. They don't do anything else except listen to recording that says you have longer erections. You can have a great sex life, you can wait until your partner orgasms, and it all becomes true because every time they say, but I can't do it, it's all over in a minute. I can't please her or him they actually make that real. But when you just change a thought, you know there's a song called Love Changes Everything by Climby Fisher, but actually thought change everything. When you think of thought, it's such a game changer.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Go a third further Swing your arm back and just watch as it goes a third further now look at how far it's gone. You are only up to the third book before. So what happened then?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“In your head, yeah, it wasn't anywhere else, it was in your head. Just do another one, put your right arm out. Just swing your arm behind you as far as it will go and have a look at where it's gone. Just look behind you to notice where it is, bring it back. I think you went up to like the third book on that bookshelf. I want you to imagine close your eyes and tell your mind my arm's going to go a third further. I'm now like a Bendy, Barbie and Ken doll. My arm is so flexible. He's going further. I want you to imagine all the muscles in your right arm becoming super flexible like cook pasta. Open your eyes, put your arm out, and say to you I'm you're going a third further now.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“That's true there was no lemon, but you could also say yes which is also true They're both true no there wasn't but yes there actually was where was it? Where was the lemon? It was making you make saliva”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Lick off the lemon, open your mouth really wide and shove that entire lemon into your mouth, and I want you to start sucking and biting and chewing all the flesh, literally bite into that lemon until the lemon drops burst onto your tongue and your taste buds pucker and swell as you start to chew that lemon suck that lemon, swirl that lemon all around your mouth, keep eating the lemon, suck it, chew it, swirl it around. And then open your eyes Did you start pumping out saliva? So here's a question Was there a lemon?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“But it's also true, you know, you think a thought and your mind can't help it, it has to make, you know, we do that, we did that thing with a lemon, didn't we, where you think you're eating a lemon. Have we ever done that Let's do it now. So put your hand in front of your mouth. Imagine you're holding half of a great big fat juicy lemon, close your eyes and just put that lemon right up to your nose. Breathe in that amazing lemon smell because nothing really smells quite like a lemon. Now squeeze that lemon so hard so that lemon drops pucker onto the surface, stick out your tongue”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“in a particular place, and I love that feeling of being super organized and very quickly it will start to change because you're thinking a thought that your mind has no choice but to make real.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“have chosen to define you. So if you start by changing that and saying I love being organized, it gives me such joy to be I love putting so when you say it say it say it it will start to change so if the last three weeks have been staying in a place with an amazing gym and I started to love working out with really really heavy weights because you know I got run over and I started to get muscle weightage in my leg I was going I laugh heavy heavy weights I love it and I was really a Pilates yoga person but for the last three minutes I get up and I'm in the gym at half seven go I love heavy weights and I didn't like it before but I decided to say it over and over again because when you say state and affirm something your mind must make it real so all you have to do really is to start saying a lot I love being organized it gives me immense joy to put stuff away I love it when everything's in its place and I'm in a hotel and sure I run to it when I come back I put my gym”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“And of course, when you do that, now you're making it really say, you know, I can't spell, but my dad couldn't spell, and now it's genetic, so every time you say I'm just a messy person, the strongest force in you and everyone in the world is you must act in a way that utterly matches up with how you.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I heard you saying action on a podcast that when you go your hotel room is very messy and it upsets you, but not enough to make you change it.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“This being on this freeway is driving me crazy. But someone else would go, wow, I'd love to be on. You've got a car and you're going to a job when you're getting paid. That's my fantasy dream come true. Don't have to change a thing, you have to change how you think about the thing. So that is changing your beliefs. And a belief is really just the thought you think a lot. So you're born as a blank slate. Where did you get those thoughts from? Who gave them to you? So the beliefs you think you can't change? Where do they come from? Let's do that now where do the beliefs you think you can't change come from?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Yeah, but the thing with the mind is there's a couple of rules of the mind. One is let me give you a couple that will help you every thought you think is a blueprint that your mind and body work to make real. Every thought you think has a physical reaction and indeed an emotional response. And here's another one the mind learns by repetition. So when you think a thought a lot over and over again, it becomes real even if it's not real. So if you think a thought my neighbour's driving me crazy, they're so noisy I can never sleep, I can hear their television, they're getting on my nerves, it'll become your reality if you say it's a little bit irritating, but I can put my headphones on, I can tune out. Then you'll have a different reaction to the same event. You know, we don't have to change events, we have to change how we think about the events. It's like saying, Oh, this commute to work is killing me.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Whatever you say you make it real your mind's job is to make your thoughts real the subconscious doesn't think it only feels and if your mind's job is to make your thoughts real in your job is to think better thoughts all the time so imagine you're going to have a needle stuck in your arm you go that's gonna hurt and that's gonna be so painful you could I always read my phone and if you cough just as the needle goes in it confuses your mind and you don't feel it Is that lying? Or is it just taking your mind somewhere else?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“a cock and think, shall I go left, right, forwards back? Would you just move because in fear you don't think you move, so when you're scared your mind empties. I remember years ago I was coming home and the sky was following me, and I knew was following me and I knew I had minutes to get in my door, and I couldn't get the key and I couldn't remember which way to do it. I'm like, oh my God, I have all the times to forget how this key works. I lived here for five years, but I was so scared I couldn't remember how to open my door at all because when you're scared your brain empties. If you go into an exam going, I'm scared, I'm nervous. You won't if you say I got a great memory, I love exams, I'm excited about this exam. I'm so excited I'm going to be assessed. I'm going to do really well or I'm going to this assessment. I'm going to ace it. This person's going to love me and see that I'm so smart and my answers will show them that I know I'm talking about. The mind doesn't go on that's silly the mind goes”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Well, I think he should lie to yourself, I think you should lie to yourself. I think you should lie, cheat and steal every day of your life, lie to your mind, cheat fear, and steal back the confidence you were born with. Let's imagine you're going for an exam. You go, I'm going to fail it, I'm going to mess it up. I got a terrible memory. I know when I read that paper, my mind's going to go blank and I'm going to blow it. So that's a belief. But you could also say, I've got a great memory, everything I studied for this exam is in my head when I read the paper. The questions are going to come up and I'm going to remember the answers and I'm super chilled at exams, I'm cool, calm, collected. I'm going to ace this exam. So if you repeat that over and over again, you see the subconscious doesn't think it just feels. And if you say I'm nervous, I'm so nervous and the subconscious feels that, then when you're nervous the mind shuts down, while the blood rushes to your heart, and your mind empties like if you're crossing a road.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“true for them does it have to be true for me? You know, I see a lot of women who say things like, well, you know, if you're really famous and rich, you'll never find a guy because a hundred years ago that was probably true. Men didn't go for rich successful women because they wanted them at home, but it's not true now, so your grandmother's belief is not your belief. I love my daughter's generation who don't do body shaming or fat shaming and have a whole different language which I think is so refreshing. So you can always choose your beliefs and you really should constantly check why do I even believe that? Is it even true? Because so often it's not true at all, it's just something you've been taught or you've just gone along with it anyway.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“I think so, you know, when I was here last week I saw about my childhood, which I don't talk about a law, it wasn't awful, but also it wasn't amazing, but the beliefs I had then so totally different to the beliefs I have now because I chose to give myself better beliefs, because you know, you make your beliefs, and then your beliefs turn right around and make you, and then confirmation bias means you look for proof of what you have chosen to believe, and you'll find it. So if you say, Oh, I hate cats, they're vicious things that scratch you, they really aloof, or I don't like dogs, they're barker, yappy, horrible things. Then if you believe that about a dog, and you meet a dog, you'll feel so anxious that that would become true. But if you say, Oh, I love dogs, they're the most loyal, gorgeous, loving things, then you'll have a different energy around them. So you should choose your beliefs, you should constantly upgrade, update, question your belief, where did I get that from? Is that true? Who told me that belief?”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Food has memories, not the chocolate, it's the feeling you felt when you couldn't have it. And you can give yourself the feeling without the thing anyway. It's really easy too. How? Should I hypnotize you so we can change it? Close your eyes And here's the magic sentence that changes your life.”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“80% of your success is down to your beliefs, but it also damages so many people because if you think I'm not good enough, smart enough, attractive enough, your mind's job is to make your fools real, even if it's not true. Classic example of sex. So many of my clients couldn't conceive because their husband didn't have enough sperm. But when men have sex with a stranger, they triple their sperm count and porn really damages so many people because it's an impossible expectation to live up to. So many people have affairs, not because they don't love their partner, but because they're missing out. But it's all about what you have chosen to believe. So you've got to reverse that language. And the other thing that people do a lot, it really messes up your sex life to call your partner mommy or daddy because...”
2023-09-18 · The Diary of a CEO · The No.1 Celebrity Therapist: The WEIRD Trick To Get Your Sex Life Back, Fix Erections & Increase Fertility! - Marisa Peer · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT