YouSaid · the spoken record

Monica Lewinsky

lines on the record
60
first
2021-09-30
most recent
2021-09-30
sittings or episodes
1
sources
podcast

Every line below is reproduced as it was said and linked to the record it came from. Nothing here is summarised or generated. Directory · Search · Corrections

  1. Think that there were a lot of things going on for me and a lot of different traumas that happened when I was younger that I couldn't even see until the last six or seven years once my life started to change, which I know we'll get to later, but started to change a bit. So I think that there were a lot of ways I acted out from things that were happening that I had pushed away. And I don't think my parents had been able to see. I think we looked for signs of different things in different ways at that time. I know that, I mean, I was a very lucky kid and that I never worried that there wasn't going to be a meal on the table. I always had a roof over the head. Oh, yeah.

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  2. Know, I think I'm not sure if you've had this experience, but I think, you know, I'm 48 now and at this point in the amount of work I've done on myself, I've really gotten to a place where I've been able to see, you know, you come to see your parents in context. You come to understand them as people who were raised and are a reflection of the environment in which they were raised by the right. Those parents, right? So my mom was 19 when she got married. My dad was 25. They both came from really different upbringings. And I think they're both really good people. They're just fundamentally very different people

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  3. They were both from San Francisco, and I was actually born in San Francisco, but my dad was going to medical school in Irvine, and my mom was going to college down in LA. And they met on an airplane. And we joke in the family since they eventually divorced. It, you know, must have had some turbulence on that flight.

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  4. Exactly. So, you know, all sorts of dumplings at meals. And then they came back to the States after my grandfather passed away unexpectedly from a heart attack at 50. And so their whole world changed. They lost everything. And came back to the States. So I think that in an interesting way, there's all of this history of sort of being an outsider. And yet belonging and Kind of became a metaphor for later in my life

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  5. Jews, right? There was a diaspora of Jews even earlier than obviously World War II. And so she was raised there and then came to the States, met my grandfather. It was kind of racy. My grandfather was her second husband. For those times. And then they moved to Tokyo. And so my mom was born in the States, but my aunt, her younger sister, was born in Tokyo. So they lived in Tokyo. So kind of have that Asian.

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  6. Yes, I might look out for one of those soon then. And so they lived in El Salvador. They had three kids. My dad was the middle child, the only son. So he was born in El Salvador. Raised there until he was 14, and then they came to the States. And my brother and I still teased my dad because he says things like Marijuana and Shir's check. And then on my maternal side, my maternal grandmother was born in China to Russia.

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  7. Actually, I have a really incredible sort of family history that way from location. So both of my paternal grandparents had fled Germany separately, didn't know each other. My grandfather had gone to El Salvador where there was a diaspora of Jews. And my grandmother had got my OMA and OPA, my OMA had gone to London. And my OPA had been, happened to be on a business trip in London, they met. They married three weeks later.

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  8. So let's put it that way. I thought that was nicely put. So I followed you on Twitter that morning, realizing I think I couldn't believe I wasn't already following you. And I thought, well, maybe you'll follow me back and maybe I could have a conversation with you. Just, you know, I think we've all had those moments where we just are kind of desperately grasping for straws. And so the fact that I had had a shitty day, I took myself out to a nice dinner and the fact that when I was leaving, I saw you that very same day, I thought, okay, this is meant to be.

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  9. You know, who from whom could I get advice? You know, this was a really challenging period and a lot of things coming my way and not really knowing, I mean, I had navigated it in 2008, but just wondering if there was a different way to navigate it in 2016. And you were actually someone who came to mind as a person who's obviously not only smart when it comes to Washington. I'd seen your advocacy work on behalf of your daughter. So I also knew you were kind and compassionate. And I guess, you know, in sort of a tertiary point was around the fact that you had been in early Obama supporter in 2008 meant that you might be able to give me some unbiased.

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source

  10. Well, I think what was so interesting to me about that was, and I can't remember if I shared that with you that night, but the only reason I actually forced myself to kind of come over and to say hi was because that morning I, 2016 was a complicated time for many people in a very narrow way if you kind of if I take a solipsistic moment it was complicated for me and I had been trying to think about

    2021-09-30 · The Axe Files with David Axelrod · Ep. 461 — Monica Lewinsky · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT · source