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Jay Shetty

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first: 2023-01-30
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“And it's the idea as well of like if someone says they're humble or practicing humility, it's like they're in ego right now. It's not possible to think to yourself, oh, I'm humble at the same time as feeling ego less.”
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“I don't think I associate that deeply with my ugly side because I've just not fed it for a long time, and so I don't feel very close to it in the sense of that doesn't mean it can't take effect on me. So my teachers would always say that if you feel like you're unaffected by Maya, Maya is the Sanskrit word for illusion. An illusion is considered ignorance and that which leads to the dark side, or the ugly side. If you feel that you're unaffected by Maya, you're in Maya. If you feel unaffected by illusion or the dark side, you're in the dark side right now.”
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“I think whenever anyone does this activity, you have to be it's again that balance of being. Highly self reflective and open to feedback but not getting into the hush. killing yourself basically because it's a really like interesting balance I find because You can easily do either. Like, you can easily defend yourself and be like, no, no, I'm good. I'm a good person. I'm great. Or you can do the opposite way. You're just like, I'm the worst that ever has to do. And it kind of, and that's why, you know, as you ask that question, I'm like, let me really look at it. My ugliest side is that And I believe this is true of most people is that you're truly capable of anything. I think Practice and my daily habits and has always been to try and feed the good dog inside me. And so”
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“My wife and I did this fundraiser for COVID for India. And I remember like it took a lot of money to just organize the fundraiser. And we wouldn't have been able to do that if we didn't have what we had. And I was thinking to myself, I was like, this is a perfect example of how you can't, sometimes you need the resource to pull off something that's even more powerful and big. But if I didn't have the resource and I didn't have the community and I didn't have my audience and my fans and the people that helped us do that, it just wouldn't have been possible. And so it's kind of like this all comes in and of itself. It comes together.”
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“And the teacher says, Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that answer, and that's totally fair. Another way of looking at it is I'd give one pound each to 100 people because it helps me learn how to become better at giving. And it gives 100 people an opportunity to grow. And so the idea is that the answer isn't whether money's good or bad. Like the answer some people say is, well, they shouldn't give any money out at all. I think the idea that something is bad or evil or something is wrong is... More simplistic idea than the depth of the idea that anything can be used for good or for worse. I remember that we've been able to do so many beautiful things, whether it's things privately or even publicly when...”
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“That's a simplistic version of a far deeper idea. There's a beautiful Story that I love that we would often be shared in the monastery where The teacher asks a student if you could give one person a hundred pounds or give a hundred people one pound each would you do? And the student says I'd give £100 to one person because it would be really impactful.”
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“But yeah, no, I think that's a big part of it. And I recognize that that's a massive paradox. And by the way, I'm living that paradox, which is even crazier because there's so much of that. Self guilt and transformation that I've had to go through. I've had to rewire my deeper relationships with every aspect. And I've realized that the monk teachings actually hold true. They're just misunderstood or misconstrued. It's kind of like when we, you know, when we keep having everyone who keeps saying, oh, money doesn't buy happiness, money doesn't buy happiness. That statement's just lasted for so long. And you and I know that That's not, you know, when it comes to the monks philosophy, the monks philosophy was very much that everything in the world was simply energy and it could be used for something higher or could be abused. Pretty much anything in the world could be put into that way of thinking. But the perception is monks don't have money, therefore it's bad.”
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“I think the feedback that I've taken on is that I definitely have changed externally, like in the sense of it is true that My life is very different externally very quickly. That's true. To me, it's not quick because it's 10 years since I left and thirteen years since I was a monk and everything, but it is quick. And it is a lot to. Know it's been a crazy journey for me internally, let alone everyone else who's just watching. And the feedback that maybe I should explain and probably why I feel so open today doing this with you and comfortable going there is maybe I do need to explain my intentions more and not just do the work and maybe I do need to”
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“So The way I and even deeper than all three of those, and I'll talk about those three, but even deeper than those three of those was this idea of Compassion Of why do people feel the need to do this? Like what role does it play? In their life, in our world. And why does someone feel the need to without never having spent genuinely quality time with me to feel any way about me? Also, not knowing anyone in my universe either. What role does this play in our society?”
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“I think it was mainly when I woke up. Like it was a strong feeling when I woke up and I'd have to work through that over the next couple of hours and then get over that and then try and progress the day. And I think day five and six were making sense of What was feedback? Shots fired. I believed about myself.”
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“I feel like throwing up in the morning Like waking up and feeling physically sick. And wanting to throw up, but trying not to.”
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“Writing to be who you are. And so I think day three and four were just kind of processing like, do I really agree with that? Am I that? What part of that is me? I can't just wanted to be someone who doesn't take something as feedback or doesn't look at something or try and understand it more deeply.”
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“Leave some of the criticism, so there's a part of you, and I think this is a good part of me. I'm happy that this part of me exists, where I have the ability to be really critical and harsh of myself to the point that I kind of embodied some of those ideas. And I was like, maybe I am. Maybe I am. Fully genuine. Maybe I do have that part inside of me. Like, God, maybe I am wrong. You know, maybe I do need to take a look at myself. Maybe I'm not doing that enough. And so I'd say that was day three and four. And that was the hardest because you're now taking someone else's words to be your worth and you're taking someone's”
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“All there is. That's all I'm seeing, even though there's everything else going on. So I'd say the first day I spent just reading everything and you feel terrible and horrific and there's a part of you that feels defensive and you're like, but I'm not like that. Oh, I wish they could just understand this. And oh, they just read that differently and I wish I could talk to this person who feels this way and like hold their hands and look into their eyes and for them to feel my real energy. I wish they could give me a chance. I wish I could actually talk to each one of these people. Maybe I should actually book a room and just line up everyone who feels this way about me and actually sit down with each of them and talk to them about what my passion is and who I really am as a human being. Maybe that's what I need to do. And you're kind of doing this whole defensive and explaining and that all of that was day one, maybe even day two. And I think day three and four were really the hardest because you start to believe.”
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“Was making me feel that way. So you're reading all the comments, you're reading the tweets, you're reading the articles, you're seeing articles come in that you've just interviewed for and you're like, wait a minute, that's been completely misconstrued. Like you're feeling this way. And I'd say a lot of this was, you know, UK-based, not really international, to be honest at all. And you're feeling that way. And I was just reading all of it. I was completely immersed in it for a day. And I gave myself a day. I said, I'm going to let myself do it today because I want to be informed. I want to be aware. And, you know, you just said this to me. You were like, you know, Jay, I didn't see any of this. I didn't even know about this. And we've talked about this before. And that's what's really fascinating, right? Like for me, that day felt like the worst day because it felt like...”
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“The seven days for me weren't mapped out in being seven days. Like it wasn't like, oh, I'm going to take seven days and this is the program I'm going to go on. Just happened to be seven days. And for me I'd say the first question I spent reading everything that”
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“It's defense from day one. And I realize I don't defend myself very well because I don't want to. I just want to be who I am and I'm comfortable with that. But that seven days was me doing all that work to process it.”
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“Not a story exactly, and I think that was hard for me because I had always believed that. Feel your genuineness and they'd respect that. You know, I think me and you have not, we've had deep time together, even though we haven't had a lot like. We wouldn't say we've had the amount of time together, but I felt very early on that I could just be myself around you, hence why I've never talked about any of what I've just said to you anywhere else, anywhere, even of my own podcast, because I don't like meeting people thinking they want me to fail. And if anything, I close off to that because”
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“Correct. And I was just like, why is it that I feel like when someone's sitting down with me, I constantly feel like they want me to fail? They want me to not be who I truly am. And they want to find that angle on me constantly because they don't want to accept that someone who is trying to be good at heart is doing good in the work and winning is okay.”
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“Oh yeah, J Shetty made X amount of money through ad revenue on Facebook and YouTube But he's talking about being a monk and so there was this constant like comparison that those two things weren't allowed and you”
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“Wasn't anything specific, it was just feeling that there was a lot of, because I wrote a book called Think Like a Monk, which I still stand by the title, I still stand by the whole book, the reason I wrote the book called Think Like a Monk is because I didn't want everyone to have to live like a monk. And my whole point was that when you learn to think like a monk, you don't have to live like a monk and that you can adopt the same mindsets and practices that monks have in your daily life, which is what I believe I took with me. But I found that when I would do an interview, you know, the interview would be, oh, Jetty tells you to think like a monk, but he's selling millions of books or whatever it is, right? Or like, you know,”
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“Yeah, there was definitely a couple of weeks where I woke up. Every day in the morning feeling sick, and I've never experienced Deep bouts of anxiety, or I've definitely experienced depression when I left the monastery in that whole period was a depressive moment in my life. But post that, I was just waking up feeling sick and for a week I just had to be alone and I just had to be alone and not see my friends and not see anyone. My wife was in London at the time, so I wasn't with her. And I literally just sat alone for seven days making sense of how I felt about myself.”
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“I'm a lawyer, I'm a dad, I'm a mum. We've been forced to be one thing. And I think for me I've been on the journey of accepting all of my complexity and all of my interests and passions and I think that that takes a long time for a lot of people to get their head around. I'm not saying that my community or my audience feels that way and I don't want to alienate them. I think there's a lot of people who don't even care about that. But I think when I think about the idea of being a target or being, it's a lot of that where it's like, well, you used to be this, just be this. Like you're not allowed to be anything else. Oh, why? And it's like, well, no, but my life's changed. Like that was a part of my journey. I'm telling you a part of my story.”
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“I could only give myself, or I had to be the only person in the world who could give myself the permission to be all of these things all at the same time. So I see myself as much as a monk as I do as a manager, as I do as a marketer, as I do as a mindfulness coach. Like I'm all of those things and I'm very happy being all of those things. But I think that a lot of the time when I come up against any resistance, it's like, no, Jay, you used to be a monk. You should be a monk for the rest of your life. And you can never be anything else. And if you do anything else outside of that circle, you're false and you're lying and you're not the same person anymore. And I'm like, well, no, I get where you're. And by the way, I actually don't disagree with that. I get where that's coming from. And I can appreciate where that sentiment comes from because we've all been forced to be like, I'm an accountant.”
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“You know, I think my life has just changed so much in the sense of literally I was thinking about this 10 years ago I left the monastery and when I look at my life over the last 10 years and then if I look at it 13 years including the three years I spent in the monastery I live like a completely polar opposite life today. I went from having no money, no idea of the business, no relationship, two sets of clothes, robes and living and sleeping on the floor and having nothing and thinking that was the rest of my life to now being in the complete opposite point of view where we have multiple businesses, unmarried, I enjoy fashion in my wardrobe. I really enjoy building teams. I love the world I'm in. And I've grown and embraced all of that transformation because I realized that”
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“People are not looking at it as if you're starting out. They see what you have and what they can pick apart. So you're observant and aware of that vulnerability in a way you never were before. That doesn't make me more scared or more fearful. It just means I can't ignore it. And I think that's the balance that I'm always going on is like, how much do you want to operate from a place of ignorance versus awareness and proactivity?”
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“Globally full-time 50 people, so it's not huge. But when you look at the people that work with us and the number of people it impacts and then the scale of all the content we create and everything, there's billions of people every month still in some capacity. And so there's a sense of, and also there's a sense of, you know, you become a target. Like you're not, you weren't a target six years ago. Like no one cared. I mean, people took shots day one. Like that wasn't the hard part. It's just you become more and more vulnerable in some areas, in some capacities, because now.”
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“You know, a few years ago, when I was starting out, we were building lots of things, we built things in a really scrappy, quick, fast way. We made really quick decisions. Some of them were great, some of them were terrible. Things went wrong. Things went awesome. Obviously, the rest of it is history and all of that. But there's a part of me as much as I need to be reconnecting with that scrappiness. There's a part of me that needs to accept that we're not that small anymore and that things do have impact and influence. And I think that paradox is something that I find myself constantly going back and forth on because I want to be able to be scrappy. I want to be able to start things at the drop of a hat because I feel like I can. And at the same time, I realize, well, no, now I need to think about a lot more people and a lot more things are affected and this can negatively impact this. And someone here could do this and all of that kind of stuff. And so I think that's something that I struggle with is the balance between saying I want to be.”
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“So it's a bit of an oxymoron, and I kind of love paradoxes and kind of feel like it's always this way. It's kind of like at one point, you know that reinvention and rediscovery is constantly needed. And then there's the other side that I've probably banged my head against the wall a few times on is accepting that I can't always be scrappy as I was in the beginning all the time. And I'm intrigued at how you feel about this, especially having built something so huge and now I know you're building something again. I can't”
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“I can trust my intuition every single time, and I want to keep doing that. I don't want to now become more scared of trusting my intuition. Someone said to me, they said, J-Lak, how many got to a point now where you can't take any risks? And I was like, no, that's completely the opposite of how I see it. I've worked this hard by taking tons of risks. This is not the point to stop taking risks. This is the point to continue to take risks because that's what creates joy, happiness, abundance, success, and everything else I'm looking for.”
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“Following and listening and sharing and observing can trust that the journey I'm going on is one of true fascination. One of the reasons why I fought to have the cover I wanted, the fonts that I wanted, to not have my face on the cover of the book was all of these reasons. I know if I put my face on the cover of the book that my publisher is going to be happier, they believe it's going to sell more. They believe that the less artistic it is, the more on the nose it is, the more people are going to buy the book. My take is I want everything I do to be art. I want everything I do to be an extension of my heart.”
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“Like, if I can do that every day, then that's phenomenal. But I don't want to keep doing something, as you said, that has the diminishing returns for me only to live off the validation and attention that comes from the other. And I think too many people have got caught in that cycle for too many decades. And I would like to say we've redefined what we do every two years. Part of why I dived into love as a fascination and a subject matter, a lot of people said to me, they were like, Jay, why are you going from meditation and mindfulness and think like a monk to talking about love? Like, why would you even do that? And I was like, because that's where I'm at. Like that's something that I'm, I mean, there's lots more reasons to it that I can share more philosophically, but on a very raw emotional level, this is what I'm fascinated about right now. And I trust that my audience, my community, the people that are.”
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“Yeah, and I think it comes back to a part of the definition of success, which for me is doing something that gives me joy and makes me happy That as a byproduct gives other people joy and makes them happy.”
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“Program can do that, a book can do that, a podcast that people listen to religiously and build a habit can rewire parts of themselves. And so to me, I was like, I'm more interested in habit change and transformation than I am in ideas and information.”
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“False acting version of that same thing. And so I find that when I feel like I'm performing, I worry and get scared and then I scale back. And so I think at that point, I got to a point where I was like, if I keep feeding the algorithm and feeding this, it's performance. And the quality of what I want to give people has changed. The four minutes videos were a great window into all of the wisdom that I'd learned and all the studying I did as a monk and all the ideas that I'd gained. But I was like, if I can't give that to people in a way that they can practice it, like a four minute video can give you motivation and inspiration, but a four minute video can't help you build a habit. A four minute video doesn't practically change your life. A four minute video is the injection, the spark, the buzz, but it doesn't transform someone's being, whereas”
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“Yeah, yeah, of course. The reason I'm asking The thing which she Yeah, yeah. I love the question. I think that. So, anytime you discover something, anytime something's new, it's attractive, you fall in love with it. And as it gets old, we only keep doing it because there's some part of it that becomes performative. So what was raw passion becomes performance. And I think performance is what drains us because performance now isn't a natural Injection of the soul into whatever you're creating, it's this”
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“Because the format was owning me, right? I was being owned by having to be a specific creator giving specific four minute pieces of advice and thought. And I didn't want to be that. I wanted to dive into building a podcast and writing a book because I wanted long form. I wanted quality. I just felt like I felt like there was only so much I could say. So there's two angles to this, there's two sides to this. One is”
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“Up with that idea, it actually came from me watching comedians who were creating sketch comedy. And I was like, oh, wait a minute, if we applied that to inspiration and motivation, that would be phenomenal. So when I came up with that idea, it fueled me. I was excited. I remember we made this video where this couple was arguing and I gave them advice and it went super viral and I was so excited by it. And then after doing that for a couple of years and seeing this incredible growth on Facebook, that format didn't fuel me anymore. And so we left it and I said, I don't want to be known for that format anymore.”
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“I think I want to give myself credit and I don't do that often, but I will for this. I think I'm going to give myself credit. And it was something you actually raised to me last time we sat down, which by the way, I got so much phenomenal feedback from that conversation. So thank you for letting me go there. But you said something to me last time and you said, Jay, you're really good at knowing when to quit. And you said that I was a serial quitter. And I'd never thought about it that way. And so you actually planted that seed in my head. And so I think what I've been good at doing every time that that's happened is I've chosen to break the cycle. So when I first started out, I was the number one page and number one creator on Facebook. And we literally left Facebook. And when I say left Facebook, what I mean is I stopped creating the content that Facebook was encouraging me to create. So we used to create these sketch-like videos where we had actors and we would cast them. And there would be this scenario. And when I first came.”
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“People in a certain way, whether that's with an algorithm, whether it's a pattern, whether it's the ability to communicate an idea, and then you go, yeah, I can either get lost in that cycle and keep delivering because it delivers, but no, that actually came from a raw desire to serve. That actually came from a place of... Genuinely listening and genuinely compassionately giving, it didn't come from a place of patterns, algorithms, studying and research. Like that's not why the impact happened, if that makes sense.”
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“Know I'm probably different to a lot of people who set out and say I believed I would achieve this or I had a certain set of goals and I did that. I didn't come from that. I came from this raw passion to want to serve and hopefully uplift the world by sharing ideas that people would listen to that and go, oh, I have that conversation with my friend, but I never thought it was okay to say it out loud or I was just thinking about that last night, but Jay just put that into words and now I feel comfortable sharing that with my partner. And so I came at this whole thing from the approach of how do I help the individual and the micro. And then all of a sudden it took off and became this thing that was far bigger than I ever imagined and far greater than I could have ever dreamt of or built. And so what I mean by the specifics is you've now learned how to create value for”
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“Yes, yes. That's exactly it. But it's coming at it from a point of that's what I need to do right now, not what I have to. I think if I felt clear about it all, I don't think I would actually achieve what I want to achieve. I think I'd waste time, waste effort. I think we'd spend time being doing stuff that didn't really excite me or move me. I think you get to a point where you know you can do something well and you don't just want to keep repeating that because that doesn't fuel your soul or that doesn't make you into the person who you want to become. And so while I know that I can do that, that's just not who I would set out to be. And that's not how we got here. And so I don't want to repeat a cycle that I know I know how to repeat just because I can when that isn't why I set out to do this.”
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“A search for clarity and almost like I can see the next few steps, but then there's a bit of fog and haze. And that excites me. So there's a feeling of excitement that comes with that search for clarity of that, if that helps.”
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“Yeah, I've been feeling like I want to know. Where I want to be in five years or which direction I want to move in five years. And I've been looking at that question and I've been trying to answer and I was speaking at a conference recently in Mexico and one of the answers was, Jay, what's your goal for what you want to do in the next five years? And I was like, my goal right now is to figure out what I want to do and what I want to put my mind to for the next five years. And so I'm feeling a sense of accomplishment. I'm feeling a sense of arrival. I'm feeling a sense of satisfaction. And then I'm feeling a sense of hunger and I'm feeling a sense of”
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“Natural sense of wanting to renew, wanting to reinvest in myself and grow again. It's almost like I feel like I did a lot of growing and I poured it all out. And now I'm ready to grow again and pour that out again. But I've got to go and refill that cup, got to go and rediscover what that is and what that next thing is that excites me, that drives me, that moves me to that. Level that brought us here today. So when you ask me how I am really or how I am deeply, I'm in that regeneration stage. But what's beautiful about it is that when you've been there before, it's a familiar feeling. Whereas when you were there for the first time, it was scary. Now I'm like, I've been here before. I know what this feels like. I know how to find the tools and skills that I need.”
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“question I'd say that I'm at a point where And I'd only give this answer to you, I don't think I've shared this with anyone. Publicly, at least right now, I'm at a point where I'm really Reflecting, reviewing, and reassessing where I want to be, what I want to do, how I want to give my energy. And so I'm in this really... Evolutionary stage of my journey, which I probably haven't felt like this for six years, which is when this all kind of started externally. And so it's been a really interesting six-year cycle. And I feel like I'm back to where I started. I definitely feel like this year Pushed myself to limits that I never thought I could when it came to work. Productivity efficiency, effectiveness, impact, like the quality of the impact this year was higher because everything else was booming higher. And at the same time, there's this.”
2023-01-30 · The Diary of a CEO · Jay Shetty: 8 Rules For Perfect Love & Amazing Sex! · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“Question. A lot of the time when I come up against any resistance, it's like, no, Jay, you used to be a monk. If you do anything else, your false and you're lying and you're not allowed to be anything else. Every time I do an interview, I'd feel like people wanted me to fail. I was just waking up feeling sick and I just had to be alone. I don't think I've shared this with anyone. I'm at a point where... What's up, Good to see you.”
2023-01-30 · The Diary of a CEO · Jay Shetty: 8 Rules For Perfect Love & Amazing Sex! · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“The truth is, most people are not getting any. We've lost intimacy in relationships. Great sex is a byproduct of great connection and intimacy. It's not a replacement for or a source of. I promise you that relationship is not growing. It's actually falling apart slowly and you have no idea. The only thing that makes you feel close to someone is when you feel...”
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“I think we live in a world where we think sacrificing our purpose makes us a better partner. When actually it makes us more resentful, guilty, more upset. So I believe that there are four important decisions that we all get to make in life. If you can do that, everything else is going to work. The first one is...”
2023-01-30 · The Diary of a CEO · Jay Shetty: 8 Rules For Perfect Love & Amazing Sex! · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT
“All the stats show that people having less and less sets. Most of us only do one thing with our partners, and it's watching TV.”
2023-01-30 · The Diary of a CEO · Jay Shetty: 8 Rules For Perfect Love & Amazing Sex! · IDENTIFIED FROM THE TRANSCRIPT